An eye for eye tooth for tooth
Mirror - a very handy thing. One look and you see all your flaws. Only that's why you most be a mirror other people's flaws and vices? Often, girls love to teach their boyfriends method demonstrate, they say, look at ourselves. To do this, they, like monkeys, mimic and copy all of its flaws. You're rude to me? I'll nagrublyu! You were lazy and selfish in bed - well, then I sleep like a log! Staring at other girls, well, I poflirtuyu with the guys. The principle of an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth has long been obsolete. Responding to evil for evil, rudeness to rudeness, cheating on infidelity, you seem to get into a vicious circle. Vicious circle, where loving people become enemies to love life and remember each other of any wrongdoing almost until retirement.
If your young man raised his voice at you, and you immediately responded in kind, fastened altercation. And he unwittingly comes to the conclusion that communication in a raised voice for you in the order of things (because you just told him cry) and you can continue to behave the same way. Stop the slaughter. Refuse to beat the strike. You can go into another room and refused to negotiate until then, until he calms down. You can respond to his cries absolutely normal voice (or even in a low voice).
Gradually it will move to the tone that defines you. The same effect can be observed when one man, tearing his voice, speaking only in whispers, and everything after it transferred to a whisper, although completely healthy. Living together, people, and so quite a lot to learn from each other. Some couples eventually even become similar in appearance, like a brother and sister. So if you own your behavior will give her boyfriend an example, we'll get much more than a silly imitation of it. Most importantly, remember: You do not have to endure anything and certainly not obliged to behave the same way. Be above revenge and pettiness.
You do not know who you're related!
What distinguishes a professional thug? Truly cool gangster knows how exquisitely threaten their victims. No sadistic phrases, without unnecessary detail, without feigned aggression. Elegant and subtle. Women are just not able, and therefore better not even try! Apparently, after watching "Brigade", "Boomer" and "The Godfather" modern girls are trying to train a favorite with "terrible" threat. The only problem is that they look at this so helpless and naive, that such scenes and asks in "Comedy Club".
I myself personally witnessed a similar picture when the student canteen, sipping coffee, lovely freshman not too convincingly played a role of predator, gangstershi, fatal and dangerous women:
- Darling, you obviously do not know who to contact - she said in a threatening tone mobile phone - for the beginning I break her of her accrued tow to cross the tips, but nothing of her silicone breasts, I generally keep quiet! Then I'll take her face, then it is very long no one will want to take pictures. I have this your fotomodelke show you how to sleep with strange guys! What? No, I beat her in the face I will not. Hunting was to spoil a manicure. I just vyplesnu it sulfuric acid, and then ... well then for you will take my brothers. I hope you understand that even one Arthur has sever you like Tuzik Warmer ...
I do not know why the delinquent boyfriend listened to this entire monologue, but I suspect, only to have fun. Because of other emotions lovely blond creation of 17-18 years of age did not cause. If you do not want to look ridiculous, forget about the threats. This is not a method! And because you try to scare her good for nothing boyfriend frazochkoy some sort of lexicon "bratvy, like:" Either you stop anywhere to hang with their friends and start to pay attention to me, or I okachu boiling water over your manhood while you sleep " unlikely to happen magical transformation of an ordinary man into a man of your dreams.
