As worth the risk to love to win?
Most people associate risk with a career or business, few people think about risk in their personal lives. And yet in love he is constantly present, and with a reasonable approach, decisive action can bring great dividends. Let us understand, what and how worth the risk to love to win? Some would say that is risky to drive while intoxicated, one considers the risk of late night ride to catch. But for many girls just walk up and meet liked the guy - is a feat and a huge risk!
Yes, today more and more women are emancipated and free from prejudice. I do not live in the Stone Age and could well take the lead, you say yourself. While dozhdeshsya first step of a man, you can easily get old. Yet these life-affirming feminist arguments sometimes do not help to calm jitters in the knees at the sight of a handsome, interesting men. I have many friends, who are willing to talk about the need to take initiative and learn first, but it never reach the practical part of his philosophy of life.
Of course, come and get to know you liked the man - is the risk. You can stop the hundreds of factors:
- What if I told him not like me, and he gave me otoshet?
- And suddenly he has a girlfriend (fiancee), his wife?
- What if he is gay (maniac), weirdo, etc?
Yet the arguments in favor of a risk and go first to get noticed a man, much more:
1. Maybe he was just tired or for some other reason did not notice you first, but you will notice it. So why not come and meet you. Do not you do not want to catch him on his keen eye?
2. Perhaps he shy or afraid to make the first move: the men could embarrass the same reasons as us girls. They are just as afraid of rejection, ridicule, or a jealous boyfriend who can inflict disassembly due to the fact that someone came up to his girlfriend.
3. If you take the first step to acquaintance, the man his attention flattering. Many people mistakenly think that men love beautiful, slim, successful. In fact, men prefer those who prefer them.
Argue this way: even if he fails you, then you will experience only a momentary embarrassment, then you will never see that person. And that means the possibility of momentary embarrassment against the dizzying possibilities of the new novel?
