Betrayal
First - we are talking about? What is betrayal ? Sided physical contact? Or thoughts of another person? (On another woman about another man?) If - thought, then any opinion "on the left" can be regarded as treason and then "scratched its face." Thus, by the way, and people come from unstable mentality to justify their actions as jealousy. View the "left", just to look, perhaps it is not forbidden. Appraising glance at a woman passing by often even be useful - but mine's better! "
True, I would say it out loud ... my better half will be reckoned as a compliment. But this is, if the actions of two-sided. If a woman does the same, but does not take a strict position of a judge or pose a liability that is passive, only able to accept (a compliment, for example). So what it is - treason ? Third-party contact? Or does the thought of it? Let's break contact. Our time is free of morality confronts people living together already experienced sexual intercourse. At least - remarriage. To you your partner was with someone.
Maybe a month ago, maybe a couple of days ago. And today it's with you. This is fine if you decide to start a life together. And if your partner after a period of living together poimeet contact side, and then (after the hygienic procedures) return to you, than it will be different from the initial period? Yes, anything! Without regard to morality and relationships, in terms only of physical contact - nothing. By itself, the contact does not mean anything. If it were not for one "but." If it were not for the reasons that prompted your partner to a third-party contact.
Not that reason, by which we often mean by female competitor, and another reason, when your better half something lacking at home. Or vice versa something too much. We shall not distracted by the search for causes sight "to the left." Everything has already been painted in many ways. But turn the analysis of physical contact in the direction of parsing thoughts about this contact. Or maybe it would be more useful in terms of finding ways to achieve the harmony of relations?
What is betrayal ? What are we talking about? The table below shows the idea following a conversation with a woman. In fact, now will be given female point of view. Point of view of a woman. And the conclusion of polemics on the topic " treason "was as follows:
Betrayal - it's not a third-party contact, and a decision on a sexual relationship on the side.
Everything. This is the woman's point of view. But that is not understood, or even challenged the men in several conversations on this topic. It turns out that women's delicate nature understands and feels the changes in behavior, changes in thoughts that could lead to a tragic sequel. And men think they can conceal their thoughts. Do not just think and believe even. A long time because it's time to raise the rank of the postulate that man in principle is unable to deceive a woman who can not by nature.
So, will the third-party communications, or will not - not very important. Moreover, there is a chance that the connection will fail and will benefit the lascivious, who understands that the best woman, it has its own, my own. True, there may be options ... Deciding on the contact side affects relations between spouses. In relationships there is something new, like the coldness of the wall at a distance of alienation. "I went" your man, or "went" your way to the harmony of relations has rested in the barrier.
Silly advice - to forgive, to forgive. Here, we simply parse the sources to be able to anticipate the event. That there was no provocation at an event called "left." Opinion "on the left, that direction is already deep river. Physical contact - the estuary. But it starts, all with roots! Importantly, do not pass that threshold, when "it" look "left." No, not so. The fact that there thinking "left" to you, women will be understood immediately. And what do you expect the fact of physical contact? In all the sources themselves! And generally, just need to know how to love, to love truly.
