Blind date
Blind date ... Probably very few people of the girls managed to escape this uneasy way to explore. Uneasy because you will spend the evening with a perfect stranger the person you need to talk about something, which must somehow charming ... In fact a blind date as a way of dating is not so bad. Firstly, in such visits is a kind of excitement, adventure, exacerbates feelings. Secondly, once you have mutual acquaintances, so what you certainly are similar, and you will likely talk about.
For a blind date, in contrast to the usual meetings, we can thoroughly prepare. You can ask in advance for your mutual friends that he was a man, than keen, where he works, what does in his spare time. Admit it, to get acquainted with the man whom you know in absentia, is much easier than with someone totally unfamiliar. Another advantage of a blind date - it's lightness and ease of conversation. You can chat about all sorts of trifles, common friends, hobbies, and the conversation will be glued itself. Most importantly, do not repeat my most favorite mistake: do not talk about the creek they heard the gossip!
The fact is that, by virtue of their profession, I always spend investigating and gathering information about a person, often dig up the most juicy details. How did he kiss? Who met me before? Why I left the previous girl? Which poses prefer? Perhaps, like me, generally contraindicated go on a blind date. I just know too much. And when the conversation appears logical pause, I was so tempted to ask something like: "Is it true that you hate girls in thongs and all other kinds of sex prefer anal?"
Most of the men from this, to put it mildly, lost. This is not conducive to establishing mutual understanding. Not ask a young person's personal life. Even if you are familiar with all the hottest gossip about him, pretend that the concept of them do not have or do not believe. By the way, we should not believe everything in a row. Getting acquainted with the man blindly, try to accept it for what it is. Who knows what about whom they say ... more important than form their own impression.
Virtual world
Spaces of the Internet are endless. World Network has been available to everyone.And then he turned into a very promising hunting grounds. About Virtual friendships can argue ad infinitum. They have a number of its pluses and minuses.
The advantage of dating through the Internet include:
- Huge selection of potential boyfriends at either end of the globe;
- The diversity of applicants for your heart;
- An opportunity to get acquainted with those men whom you never met a would in their daily lives;
- To assess a person as a person. After all, you do not see each other, and photos posted by people, may well prove to be unreal, so you're less emphasis on superficial tinsel and more immersed in conversation. However, the disadvantages of dating through the Internet, too short, and they must be taken into account so as not to be trapped:
- Virtual communication has a very different social games and frank lies. When you know the person, who did not see the temptation to appear before him the way you yourself would like to see yourself. And because it is not surprising that when a new virtual stranger asks the man: "Where do you live and what car ride?" I feel like wishful thinking and say: "I live in Moscow, on Tverskaya Street, and drive a Lexus, Of course. " Similarly, as many girls want to embellish itself, throwing off his two years in the personal data;
- Virtual communication delays. Sometimes, friends or even lovers of the Correspondence become so close that they are just scared to meet in real life. And suddenly, the reality will not meet expectations? A sudden personal acquaintance spoil everything?
In general, the Internet novels should be as careful. Try to clearly identify who you are looking for. If you need just flirting, no problems. Internet access is ideal for collecting admirers and compliments without much risk and the need to disentangle the consequences.
If you are looking for virtual sex, should be more careful. The network is fully poluspyativshih fanatics. And because it is not necessary to register on those sites where ask your contact information. If you voznamerilas find their destiny in the network, keep in mind - it's not fast and not very easy. However, in the life of the fate, too, is usually not immediately. So have patience and faith in what you will do it.
On the other hand, never be afraid to destroy the myth, getting acquainted with a man in real life. Once you feel that a young man like you, safely been dating in real life. After all, the longer you talk, the stronger the attachment, and, consequently, more may be disappointed.
