Remember the tale of a boy who kept shouting: "Wolf, wolf!" - And all that have escaped to see the wolf, and at the same time and save the boy, found that there was no wolf is really there. And when one day the wolf really came and the boy, as usual, shouted to him, nobody believed it ... Unfortunately, the same way often receives a lot of girls. It is worth boyfriend than not please them, they begin to shout loudly: "parting parting!" - But it's worth boyfriend to go to female condition, as the gap immediately repealed, or at least postponed indefinitely - until the next controversy.

Variations on this theme can be infinitely many. Some girls like to smugly repeating: "So please, go away, you did not need you!", Others often threatened: "Do not do what I want, I lost", and others saluted with phrases like: "Our relationship to me means nothing!" . So, let me say such words are not serious rush! How angry would you go, no matter how fiercely wanted to hurt pobolnee favorite, never, never threatened such serious things, like the gap. Or, leaving - go. fulfill their threats, you show a chatterbox, hysterical, unable to control their emotions and do not listen to reason. You clearly proves that you are not man of his word. And very soon your manipulation will cease to have its effect.

Boyfriend will know that your "if you can not do in my - we part" means nothing. It's a cheap trick and an empty sotryasanie air, and not a real warning. In addition, the hurtful words "I do not need" always had a deep sink in the men's memory. He can forgive you what you called him a "goat", he may forget that you're a wing of his mate, but he never forgets that he do not "need". And believe me, once in the hearts of those big words to say much more effectively than later months of begging for forgiveness and prove how much you need this man.

So do not resort to such prohibited methods. After all, if one day you actually decide to part with her beloved, he does not accept your words seriously, and decides that just as it once again you do not hit or do you simply slides ICP.

And finally I say

Saying goodbye to the former, does not hurt to give some good wishes, advice for the future. What to do absolutely should not - so this makes your last interview in the "debriefing". It would seem as well be a psychologist! Do you know about human nature much more simple inhabitant, and can bite anyone. Your deep knowledge of the intricacies of the human soul to help you make the right decisions even in difficult situations ... Unfortunately, even such a noble profession has its own costs.

It has proven its good example of my friend Olga. A couple of years ago, Olga finished Faculty of Psychology and in the process practiced in the subject of his study with all their boyfriends. Each new young man she analyzed and dissected, with diligence and thoroughness of the scientist. She analyzed each man's breath from the viewpoint of psychoanalysis and skillfully to diagnose right and left. Maybe that's why the majority of its young people reminded not enamored admirers, and loopy neurotics. All Olga's relationship did not last too long. Few men could be subjected to psychoanalytic abused for longer than six months. And yet, Olga was pleased with himself and did not consider it necessary to revise their policies in a relationship. As once, discussing personal life with classmate Sveta and Olga decided to move to a new level of psychoanalytic love. Light just talked about his recent breakup with her boyfriend.

- You know, I decided to leave him, I just was not able itself to cope with his Oedipus complex, - complained of Light - but in parting I gave him a few parting words of good advice, and he was right after our break was able to find a girl with they now constitute an excellent pair of harmonious and even want to get married.

Olga slapped his forehead: and as she herself had not guessed? We must urgently with someone break, guided him at last on the right path. So she did. However, her "good guidance" turned into a long lecture bored boyfriend. She described in detail all of his former complexes, told me what where did (and still very unflattering spoke of his parents, who according to her diagnosis of these very complex and provoked), told how to "cure" ...

At Olgino misfortune, the former was a student of journalism and editor of the student newspaper. The following week on the first page out squelcher of Ole and "psychoanalytic overrun." Since then, she was considered not psychologically savvy, and psychologically obsessed girl.

So keep in mind: nothing can be worse and more stupid than homegrown psychoanalyst, consider it my duty to all around impose their views. Tell her boyfriend with a smile on his farewell: "I hope your new girl will be more tolerant of your scattered throughout the house socks, what was I" - is a manifestation of friendly concern. But the clock to ship it, describing what subconsciously unconscious problems have prevented your love - it is already too much.