Do not be afraid to have children
Despite the fact that the President ordered all the girls of the country important mission: to improve the demographic situation and even made for this kind of financial incentive, not all of the fair sex have rushed to become pregnant and give birth to children ... The fact that childbearing is still seems to us, modern girls, some threat to careers. Not all employers will now wait until you get out of the maternity leave. And in general, assumed that the ideal employee - a single, lonely careerist, ready to sit in the office late and take work on the weekend.
In fact, this stereotype has long been obsolete. Many employers do not have anything against family members, not to mention the fact that in certain areas the presence of children, even necessary. Need examples? Please, any number! My sister, a child psychologist by training, did not take the position of a journalist in a magazine for young mothers. "Why?" I have after all the relevant education and experience is! Why did you not take me "- my sister was puzzled. "Because you are not the main thing: his children, - cut off the employer - we need journalists who not only versed in child psychology, but also they have no children. As a childless woman can write to Mom? "
Another amusing example is the same "antidetskoy" discrimination has occurred with my man. Once he returned from work angry and depressed.
- Hey, what are you doing this? - I asked .- At work, all right?
- I was furnished Katya. I can not believe! She has sold more than me! - Lamented my man .- It's not fair!
- Why?
- Yes because! All of our customers in the stores - women, most with children. So Katya just steps into the store, it begins with them splutter about children, about the diapers of kindergartens. While she speaks of his teeth, she manages to drive the whole product.
That's it! So do not be afraid to give birth . This is not a risk to your career. Quite the contrary. But if you come in thirty years in the employment agency and you will then be a great track record, but will not have children, then you may have difficulty finding jobs. After all, if you have at thirty has no children, that means, most likely in the coming years, you want them. And then you have to give maternity leave, etc. So whatever your choice as you can play it on your arm and against you.
