Selfishness is not for those who would like to find a mate, and not for those who want to find a friend, selfishness will be approved and understood only by the selfish, two selfish with each other will not last long. Forget about yourself, think of others to its detriment, to become infallible, you will not make, but take care of those who are close to you, you have to not be alone. If you're not sincere in his concern for others, gratitude can not wait. Only honesty can achieve reciprocity. Remember: the friendships - the basis of love and friendship, the same selfishness will destroy any relationship. Selfish people can, and beautiful from afar, are attractive, but close - do not freeze from their "cold." Do not wait until the first actions of another, make themselves near a warm ambiance, and your warmth will return to you double. Communicating with other people only see their selfish interest, and, if entering with someone in a relationship, it was only for my benefit. If people are forced to enter into contact with the selfish, then try to quickly end all relations with him - after communicating with the selfish man will be an unpleasant aftertaste.

How are you being selfish, create a couple? At first, maybe you'll attract his fans - your selfish attitude will find a woman flirting, innocent whims, the desire to be his only and most-most. However, talk to you about your family, friendship, a fan can have at the end of the first meeting to understand and realize that in front of him, this selfish, not interesting, spoiled and heartless. Every self-respecting man will not go for a serious relationship with a selfish. Desiring to create a serious, real relationship, do not put in the center of his own self, do not be selfish . Be a different kind of interest and concern for those who are with you, be hospitable, welcome, become a friend, helper, and your partner must respond, appreciate your concern.

During the conversation, ask the other person questions about himself, be attentive to him, tactfully, in something to emulate and even praise him - in short, create a warm, friendly atmosphere, to a man it was nice to communicate with you. The man stretches where he pleased, where rustic and warm. " Where he is met by "cold", he no longer wants to appear. On the first date is not there are situations where you could fully display their qualities as a friend, but friendship and your willingness to serious relationship interviewee can feel. Remember: even a small caring nice person and cause a backlash. Therefore, look after the man at the table, surround it with attention, affection, care about their health, well-being. How beautiful is as a pair when he and she are mutually care about each other, caring for one another and help in everything! Only such an alliance will be strong and durable. On the contrary, a couple where there is no reciprocity, is unattractive from the outside, not pleasing to the eye. Good, strong union - is primarily the impact of its energy, part of his soul, and afterwards - the constant interchange of these benefits.