Do not be sorry frustrated groom
You suddenly felt sorry for her disconsolate suitor? Poor thing, you think. Do this a pity? And how to cope with it? I remember in school I went to the so-called "charitable goodbye. My companions were "very nice guys, polite, honest and intelligent. Of those that are not ashamed to bring home, to submit to their parents. Of those who in any case does not deserve the suffering. Of those that I would not do ...
I knew that we did not succeed, but I persisted in its charitable work, because I did not want to offend a "very good guys." One day, my secret erotic dreams to fruition and I was invited to the meeting "very bad guy with a reputation for macho heartthrob, without pity decomposing female hearts. I was elated, but still hesitated. How can I choose a good guy bad? Is not that silly? Is this not the worst mistake? Can I do so dishonestly with a decent man? Here that the rescue was my best friend Anne. She gave me a dressing down, which I will remember for the rest of my life.
- Immediately stop doing this! - She began her brilliant monologue. - Stop all regret, or very soon no one will feel sorry for you! Do not you know that you despise and pity yourself, and your "good guys"? Say, they deserve your honesty? Maybe. But does the concept of integrity includes a pity? Or, perhaps, honesty - is to abandon their desires, their feelings and their lives in favor of "a very nice guy"? Maybe you even sleep with them out of politeness? You can not blame yourself for what Lawless Heart. Do you think your behavior you prove how you respect them and appreciate? Anything like that, you just demonstriruesh all around as you do not love yourself!
Her words had their effect. Charity I ever not been dealt with and met only with those who liked me and not anybody I was sorry. Freed from self-pity, I realized how much a previously denied. And not just yourself. Do not feel sorry for the groom failed . Rejected a "good guy" too stopped "hanging in limbo," languishing in a painful waiting for my verdict: fall in love or not love. He immediately began to establish privacy and succeeded. Hence, a simple moral: Your honesty would not hurt a person, not break his heart and not ruin his life. Your honesty will help you both save a lot of time! Admit it, this is a serious argument.
