Even a small child - the person
What can you say about a child who has just been born? Small lump of life that cries, silent, he knows what and how much he eat, sleep, far or near my mother, what his mood? The main thing you need to know their parents - in front of them is not just a pure material in which there are many options for the future. If we do not have the foresight, we can not know that the most perfect way possible adult who can develop from this particular lump of life.
We live near their children in order to find such a scenario, besides, we all want this with all my heart. However, why it turns out not everyone? Like so many conflicts, the main reason - lack of understanding and lack of common perspective. What is the point of view may be a baby? And why it should not be? After the first days of life the baby is his attitude crying, facial expressions, calmness or anxiety. So, he has somehow treat the world. He can not express their views in plain language, but already has it. Even a small child - personality .
So communicate with your child can and should be on the first day. But some think that the process of education is to limit and control, as well as to scold or punish a child too early, then self-education seems to them later care. Why do we first create the problem, and then fight with her? After an early age - is the perfect time for the recognition of the child. His reactions are natural, naked, and scream - get me!
What can we learn about the kid, how to determine his ability and character and how it can help parents and child? At a very early age the best way to get recognition kid games. Play with your child as often as you want it, and as often as you want it to your baby. The game should be fun for you and him. Through trial and error you eventually learn to understand your baby, know which of your activities he enjoys, and which - not. We need only listen to your maternal instinct and the desires of the child and follow them.
A common mistake many parents is their purposeful activity, when mom or dad say: "So, dinner? Chudnenko! And now - educational games, "and begin to" develop "the child, despite the fact that he now is not the slightest desire to play and wants, for example, to get on Daddy's ample lap and listen to the story. Do not engage with the child against his will, everything should be totally natural and relaxed, without violence and pressure from the parent party. Any child abuse in general is unacceptable - it can only discourage any desire to learn. As time passes, you yourself surprised to notice how well began to understand the desires and needs of your scraps, even if he still does not know how to speak.
Simple games even with the small child brings joy not only to him. Follow along, and you'll notice that after school with the kid you better mood, moving away into the background of the problem. The child hands you a part of his attitude, his magical ability to see into the surrounding only the good and kind. "The world is beautiful!" - So says your baby, and you begin to assume so after him. There are so many educational games for children of any age - even for one-and two-week babies.
Of course, it is very difficult to catch the moment when your pipsqueak is not asleep - usually after eating, babies "fall off" until the next feeding. But if you want to find such moments can be. For example, during bathing or diaper changing. Try to show him a bright toy, then to carry it away from his face, at the thirty centimeters, then hold almost to the very eyes until you get to the kid recorded the view of the moving toy. Try a toy could move left and right, let the kid at least a few seconds to follow her eyes. After a few repetitions, you can add sound stimulus - let your toddler will hear the bell ringing as rustling paper. He likes it! After a while he learns to look through the eyes of the sound source and enjoy the appearance of familiar sounds and objects.
Sing him a lullaby song, just humming a pleasant tune. The kid is absolutely necessary to hear your voice. It is for him a guarantee of stability of the world, and, respectively, and its own security. From its earliest days the child gazed into the face mother, who speaks to him, drawn to him. Mom's voice for the baby - the real drug, for it is absolutely necessary to reside with his mother in a verbal and tactile contact. The most attractive in dealing with her mother for the baby - that admiration, which he calls it, and which so clearly he feels in her voice and touch. The child is absolutely necessary to know that its very existence is a great pleasure!
