Familiarity rather than an argument ...
Conflicts with strangers - it is always unpleasant. Difficult to negotiate, do not know how to approach a completely alien to you man. And if that same stranger to the same man, but still liked you ... New contacts made to begin with positive emotions. Make a man a compliment, ask him for advice, to charm an impressive cleavage, a fresh joke to cheer - and that's between you have stretched the invisible threads of mutual sympathy, which means that the acquaintance was like clockwork. But what if you meet with is not very pleasant circumstances?
Surely it has happened with every one of us. Have you accidentally upset a glass of red wine you liked the man, or to ram his Lexus of his "nine", or somehow inadvertently spoil a potential boyfriend? How can correct the situation? What can I do to change the prevailing negative impression about yourself?
1. Do not grovel and abase not thyself, no matter how huge and blatant nor was your fault in front of a stranger. Position "trembling creature" does not help to elicit sympathy, except contempt. Hnychuschaya girl, begging for mercy, not the plum for the irritated man. A hysterical pleas for forgiveness can only be stronger than his anger.
2. Bring a sincere apology. Calmly and clearly suggest to compensate for the damage.
3. If you caused the damage is not too serious and the victim of your offense is not too angry, it is not necessary to apologize a thousand times. If a man is in response to your apology just joking with me, answer me in the same joking tone, gradually adding notes of flirtation in her voice.
4. If you Naham man and only then noticed the man WHAT are you Naham, do not be shy to admit his mistake in a joking tone. Say something mischievous and coquettish. For example: "Excuse me, here as always! Under the spur of the moment caught the cutest! And where were my eyes a few minutes ago? "
Most importantly, if, in spite of the emerging conflict of your smile the man had melted like an iceberg, it means that your chances for a successful continuation of the relationship are great! Furthermore: you caught a very good-natured and othodchivy people, but for those not sorry, and half the kingdom! And eventually you'll get a familiar place of strife ...
