Family Karma

Unfortunately, among our family there are also some bitches and slobs and losers, and the dirty dog. How to use them to behave? Get on at any price? Care? Forgive? Or you can send to hell, turn away and forget? Karmic theory of the transmigration of souls to answer all your questions and help to live in harmony and with relatives, and with itself.

Who chose - in order, and live

In between incarnations of the soul reside in Heaven, and those who represent the single-family stick together, one of pride. When the Earth's family is conceived, every soul Pride tries to laid down specific genetic identity (eg, temperament, emotion) and the health of the fetus, decides the suitability of this kid and his parents to deal with its karmic problem, and if there are no contradictions between them, embodied in him between 90 and 120 days of pregnancy. The soul acts like a musician who chooses the most suitable instrument for the execution of his musical party - the karmic tasks in this embodiment.

Who are they, our relatives

They embody the souls of those people with whom we have been in previous incarnations are connected most durable, kin or friendship ties, ties of love or hatred, sympathy or hostility. From one generation to the same souls meet each other in the guise of a grandmother and her grandson, then - the mother and daughter, then - two sisters. Extremely rare among our relatives are the souls of those who have never been connected with us by blood or at least characteristic (through the husband or wife) bonds. In drawing up its own genealogical tree, signed a lot of sense. Studying their home, you see, who behaved as if life, how the character had - and often find those similar to you. Be aware that this may be the man - the soul has no gender. Sometimes you feel your spiritual community, barely glancing at a photograph or a portrait. By their actions the previous incarnation it can be assumed as the rest of your present life, to understand what you must avoid in order not to repeat past mistakes and to strive for.

Testing of karma - it is not scary

We think that working out is always unpleasant and painful - as a punishment. But in fact it is our pleasure - like an interesting lesson in school or fascinatingly written and useful book. For example, a 25-year-old son and his father and engaged in business. They are different views, character, temperament, often argue, but stand for one another hill. Dad to son - the authority and indispensable antipode, where he hones his opinion and ideas. Dad son unconditionally trusts - and he knows that he understands it at the level of the spinal cord, always and everywhere.

As follows from the astrological horoscope, karmic problem of father and son - to learn to interact successfully with a man other temperaments and other opinions. In the last incarnation they dealt with its first phase: born brothers who were engaged in mercantile and shipping business, was fond of Kabbalah, and spent all his considerable income to the magical experiments. In one experiment, at sea, they called for the storm, but did not cope with it. Older brother - now a son can be saved, but returned to the boat to the wreckage of the ship for the younger (now a father), and both perished in the abyss. They have learned to get along as equals - as brothers.

Now they have moved to the second stage: in the present embodiment, each of them fulfills the technique friendships vertically - between people of different generations. And we can assume that in the next incarnation, they reverse roles: the son turns out to be a representative of the older generation, my father - the younger. In all embodiments of karmic connection between them gives both much joy and benefits, despite frequent conflicts and quarrels with the slamming of doors. "

Punishment for the family - "black sheep"

Anna's parents - beautiful, smart and slim people. Mom - the dermatologist, father - a cardiologist. Aunt - a famous artist. The elder brother - a scientist-chemist, Ph.D. in Sweden, and now works in England. Jr., Victor, a slacker and a liar, at school bad evaluation forged. University dropped. Secretly to withdraw money from tetinoy card. At any place of work longer than a year is not charged. To lease a car smashed boiled. Relatives chipped in money to pay for it, he looks for a new job. He thanked all the tears, and then with the boss scandals, take time off from his work, and it is fired. Or he goes: "This profession demeans me!" Six months he lived with his brother at his expense. Left: "In England the wages are low, and all - snobs." Anna, who pays for the training of Victor regular profession, recently told me: "Okay, let my brother - my karma and my punishment for some sins of past lives, but where does everyone else, why the whole family must suffer if God decided to punish someone cursed rodstvennichkom? "....

To this question is best answered by the old joke: "Cruise ship in distress in the ocean. Young beauty tearfully begs God to spare her. She is a God and said:" You changed your loving wife, back away from their husbands faithful wives, sex for money and must be punished! ". Beauty is crying:" Lord, surely because of my one thousand one you drown the innocent passengers? "God angrily replied:" Yes I do, whores and scoundrels, seven years on this ship is going! "....

So with "punishment for the whole family" - the Lord God gathers into one family a few souls who want to give a certain karmic debt, and sends them a malicious cousin - as a general "punishment." And Anne's family takes care of ne'er younger brother to repay the inattention to someone in their previous incarnations.

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"Scapegoat"

Often someone's soul takes over the sins of others and the current incarnation of suffering to the rest of the family could live in peace. Often such a person is sick in some serious ailment and can not work - or soundly drinks. He was absolutely helpless, bestolkov, ironic, unfortunate, attracts a failure - and always harmless and grateful for your participation. In it, as opposed to "punishment for all, never harm, anger, malice or contempt for others. While the family takes him to his best qualities - patience, understanding, kindness and caring, she is thriving, but as soon as it is denied assistance because of greed, because of constant irritation to him, due to lack of time - a family well-being of collapsing: someone gets sick, someone unlucky in matters of business collapses, brothers and sisters are quarreling among themselves, the couple apart.

"The award for valor"

Sometimes we got an exclusive relative: for example, my aunt, who takes care of all elderly in the family and all the nephews, never at anyone's voice does not improve, all of listens, supports and understands. Or dad, magnanimous and generous, - he read books to children at night, helped with the math, buying bicycles and computers, and have always believed in them. The soul of such relatives are usually embodied in our family to give to some one or all of the relatives a debt of gratitude and love. Maybe in some past life of our ancestors took in an orphan house or feed the hungry. And now his soul is grateful to us. We tend to "reward" such a person does not believe, do not try to understand why we have provided such a treasure. Well, maybe this is correct - not to good analysis, and take it with pleasure, perhaps, by such and should be in the ideal family relations: full of gratitude and support.

To awaken the goodness and mercy

Often, people angrily asked: how can the Lord God allow suffering to a child, why children are ill cancer and die early or are born with different disabilities? Karmic philosophy explains such phenomena is very simple: the righteous soul, who is completing a cycle of their earthly incarnations and close to the Creator, often willingly takes on the difficult task: to teach people to charity, compassion and love. More readily we compassion child - we laid down the instinct for procreation of the human, to protect children and save. Therefore, in the world come to sick children. Parents sacrifice for the sake of a sick child their own interests, imbued with compassion for other bereaved and ill with, kindness to all the lonely and unhappy. All we have shown him mercy. And the soul of the child, to accomplish its task, happy and enlightened, returns to the heavens. Next to it is a choice, to proceed to the palaces of the Creator, or again descend into this world and develop in us kindness and compassion.

What kind of karmic connection, the most important?

Once you are married - in the first place you have the interests of her husband and children, and then - all other relatives. His parents, we choose only your soul. Husband, we choose the soul, mind and body. He is closer to us parents, communication with him tighter. And if our child dog is in contradiction with the married - a priority for adultery. You promised to come to my parents for dinner and my husband intends to go with you to the movies. We must choose a movie and my husband. This woman is hard to get used. You often hear from female friends: "Husbands happens a lot, and my mother - one." Karma is inexorable: in such women and their husbands would be really a lot - because no one in her strong love will not work.

What if the relationship with relatives do not add up?

Does not suffer and step aside. Not maintain any relations - hence the decision to abandon the karmic problem. In the next life this aspect of the work out, but in this his karma will not spoil. How can it be to spoil?

1. Many times to return to the unloved husband only because it threatens to do away with them, shake their parishes emotional pendulum - and thereby encourage the husband to the implementation of the threat. Gone - and you more for it is not responding.

2. Quarreling with her sister, to which Pope rewrote your family cottage, and keep all the talk about her nastiness. And to provoke her to quarrel. You can not look at her, with her saying: resentment strangles, envy gnaws? Do not look, do not tell. Not visited. Not cultivated in himself anger and hatred, do not provoke retaliatory anger at his sister. Congratulations to her by e-mail with the holidays. That's all.

Mom you are constantly criticizing, finding fault with every word of it and with it you can not even agree affection? Do not go for it. Please send it by post paid bills for her apartment and the phone. Even to call you is not obliged to - the phone works both ways. Wants to see you, complain to the health of - pick up your room with his hand. Each person is responsible for himself, if he is not in marasmus and compos mentis. And never refused to make a reciprocal step towards convergence - and suddenly your cousin really changed? Miracles happen!?