Fear not like women!
There are people whom we like the simple way, very much. But it so happens that we see it and start to (consciously or unconsciously) afraid of success and as a result, all the ports. Yes, oddly enough, this fear is very common. Do not know? Many men and women when they feel that close to success, start to panic. This panic happens for several reasons.
1.YA not ready for the next stage and did not expect this success.
2.YA do not know what to do next.
First - you stunned unexpected result. And you're not quite ready for it. Well - this is normal. Here, you'll have to pull myself together and say to yourself: "I'm going to end!". This is important, and nobody except you will not. Just try now to bring all follow through at all costs. Often, before the altar the bride or the groom happens like a panic attack. It is important to move beyond this barrier, once the decision was made. This property of the person to say: "Why," has just before the finish line. Do not be afraid to please women!
Once my friend asked the question during his last year: "Why do I need a diploma?" I replied: "Having reached the end. And when will he be, will reflect on why you need him. " The second solution is to get rid of this fear - the competence and experience. When you know how things will be or how it should be, you surely pereshagnesh through this fear is ignorance. And with pleasure vosprimesh unexpected success. Recently there was a test case with one of my friend who has demonstrated his problems with women.
Sanya - cool guy. Not handsome, but sure enough. And every day he meets with several women. But, as he told me a week ago, he had still not had sex. Why? He did not know, I also initially assumed he could not. Today I opened it secret, after hearing a story about Sani's how he met a cool girl on the Internet. He met with her and they liked each other. And then she calls.
-Hello, Alex, hello!
-Hi Mila, How are you?
-Cool, I sit at home and wanted to chat with you.
(She is 25 years old and she has been living alone. Married was not.)
-And I'm here with another walk.
-Sasha, I want to chat with you, can, come, do it at my house - she flirts.
-When do now? - Emotion of surprise he said.
-Yes!
-Oh-oh-oh ... No, now I can not, tomorrow I can ... For some reason, Alex could not come? Yes, because he at the time horsing around in the street with Andrew. I asked him:
-San, why do not you dropped everything and did not go? He:
Yes, today I hung out with Andryukha! Andrew:
-I would not be offended if you left me alone with the girls and drove off!
I:
-Sanya, you know, call and go for it! When a woman gives green light to use immediately. This possibility may be the last.
Sasha:
-I have arranged for tomorrow! I:
-Why did you put? He:
-I do not know, is not ready once was! I:
-After a month without sex I would have rushed off to her! He:
"Yes, I do not know ... I:
-You are afraid not of failure. A success! You do not know how to act in case of success. You're afraid that it will lead, and therefore do anything to spoil everything. Behave harshly and arrogantly!
Sasha:
-Oh-oh-oh ... right! I:
-You can not feel comfortable next to a woman when she is not against when she lies to you. This is a problem 50% of men. So sometimes they behave like idiots.
Sasha:
-Damn ... you opened my eyes, man ....
Sasha walked for another half hour with round eyes. Half an hour later I told him how to tune in to a feeling of comfort next to the beautiful girl. And he began to call girls who are never called. Because he knew that they are to him. Yes, and it's true! Often, peasant easier to behave, when a woman sends it than when it is on him. Because he is embarrassed and shy when she attends herself. But this drawback should get rid of. Properly to be able to feel the comfort when you are silent and sit beside her, and when you look at her, and when you talk to her. Sense of comfort from the presence of a woman next to you - is the foundation for the success of seduction.
Creating a sense of comfort with very beautiful girls
Find a girl who is sitting somewhere on a bench or standing in one place for a long time. Come to it so that it does not embarrass, and sit beside him. Do nothing, you just have to stay with her. Pretend that do not pay attention to it, take a book and pretended to read. Sit down as she was, and accept the same position. Now we do one exercise that will help you feel comfortable with a girl.
Imagine that you are - this is it. Imagine yourself in her body. Imagine how you feel, what you see and what you hear in her body. Feel like you're breathing, being her. And look at you - a guy who is beside her. Like you yourself:) Feel it in the body that you comfortably sit next to you. Feel the warmth and feel, as "you" want to get closer to him, the guy sitting next to. Now go back to myself and imagine that all around you comfort zone - a ball where you are. Imagine that you let her into the ball. And it is well with you.
Pay attention to your feelings toward this woman. Look at what has changed in her telopolozhenie or something else. Can you feel it now? Comfortably whether you? Repeat this with at least five very beautiful unknown girl. Do you want to meet after the experience a sense? Quietly if you feel close to the girls? Remember this state. Remember the ball. And when you are approached once a very beautiful girl, if you start to worry - causes this condition and admits to the ball, filled with positive energy. VI. Fear not like women!
