You have a very long time together - a few years. He was the love of your school, very nice caring, always walked me home, wear your backpack. Then you had his attention flattering. You were almost the first girl in the class, which has got its own suitor, but now you think that your feelings are not so strong as before. Your question is quite objective: indeed, if you have been together too long, your feelings could be blunt. Let us together look at how you treat your partner. It is quite difficult to do. The fact that you - are already part of the whole, you find it difficult to imagine life without each other. You have everything in common - the tastes, hobbies, friends. But love it?

Analyze your life together - so if it looks like a romantic union of two lovers. Perhaps it is no more room for romance and vengeance reigns life. Is there a place in your life for love confession to mutual caresses and tenderness? If you are still gentle to each other, then you're likely to keep warm loving relationship to each other. It is possible that they only need a small shake-up. In your power to change the situation - add zest to try to revive the former strength of your feelings. Use the traditional methods - a candlelit dinner, a new hair style, elegant dress. This should be a positive act on your vote.

Talk with your loved ones on the souls and together will be examined in your feelings. Develop your relationship or whether you're staying at one point? It is not excluded that your relationship is based only on the memories of your school years, the carefree years when you are running down from school and secretly met in a city park. Very often, people are living memories, and reality is not for them any interest. If you feel that a real and strong love is in the past and the present - only a dull and monotonous routine of co-existence, then in your power to change your life. Do not be afraid to hurt your spouse, even if in the past he has done a lot for you if you think that he still loves you and worships. Try to find out how it applies to you, whether he wants to change. As a result of frank discussion on the souls you can figure out that he himself had long tired of your relationship, but was afraid to break them, because they do not want to cause you pain.

How to get rid of the habit, if you know what your feelings are in the past? It will be difficult. Habit - terrible force! " Do not do it overnight. First, prepare the soil. If you live together, then try to live separately - go to distant relatives, ostensibly for the anniversary of your favorite aunt, and stay there for a week. If you just meet for a long time, then give up too frequent meetings, even if it is not so simple.

In order to parting with former lover was less painful - change the image, color hair, wardrobe update, try to find a fun hobby that will help you spend less time at home, poflirtuyte with other men - so you have to prepare the ground for separation. But in any case, do not break straight from the shoulder, Do not part with your beloved, if you think that your feelings are just a bit dim. You will be able to resuscitate, the main thing - to make this effort.