How do you say that it's over?
Thought that the girls still frames into a Hollywood movie, changing at breakneck speed. What if this stream wormed petty little thought about breaking with your current boyfriend? What to do with it? Ignore? Consider how to? Put her boyfriend? One of the most difficult dilemmas in the world: how to behave, if you have the desire to part with your current young man? " How do you say that it's over? variants may actually be quite a lot. Consider the most common.
You honestly delishsya with a loved his concerns and talk about their feelings. Just so would recommend to do the majority of psychologists. Not for nothing they say that in respect of any contact is preferable to a complete lack of contact. At least for this behavior you can not be accused of dishonesty or meanness. Minus of this approach only in that the possible consequences are unpredictable. Anticipate the reaction of her boyfriend on such statements very, very difficult. He was with the same success can take the initiative and throw you first (not to be in the humiliating position of a thrown), may try to mend relations, may try to help you understand yourself. In short, he can respond as you wish!
Your main task, if you chose such an honest and straightforward approach, to take any of his reaction to the love and gratitude. Even if he answers you overlaid the three-story floor-mat, or send to the address written on any fence, be forgiving and grateful. After all, for man is a shock, and still do not know how you would react in his place. So, choosing honesty and openness, and let her man be honest and open in the manifestation of their feelings, even if this honesty will be bordering on rudeness. But the advantage of this approach, of course, you can call that your boyfriend's reaction to your confession you can really tell a lot about him and about his attitude toward you.
If he listened carefully to your words and calmly began to understand the reasons for your desire to part with him, know next to you a rare and attentive man. Think thrice before you leave this. In the end, if the person demonstrates a desire to solve the problem, most likely, he can find strength and wisdom to really solve it. With such a man is very easy to be happy. Well, if in response to your words, he just yazvit and throughout accuses you, most likely you will be easier to part with such a man. At least you'll know what to expect from his men in emergency and stressful situations.
If you do not want to talk about your boyfriend want to leave, and you want everything first carefully weigh and consider, this also has its own common sense. In the end, you never know what vzbredet head girl. Maybe you have PMS or just a hard week at work, here and thought it was time to leave. A few days later everything settled down and you forget about all sorts of silly things like divide. In this case indeed to anything to hurt his beloved hysterical thoughts on the subject "to be your partner or not to be." It is better to leave on time.
Congress of the rest to something or to visit his parents, tarry with friends a couple of days under the pretext. A short break will help you understand whether your serious intention to leave or is it just a whim. For the week of separation from loved ones you can easily determine if you missed it or, by contrast, felt more comfortable in solitude. Then you'll be able to draw objective conclusions and to make the right decision. But not seeing for a while - is necessary. Because if you continue to live with a loved one, planning the separation and at the same time pretending that everything is in order, it neblagotvorno will impact on your nervous system, and your relationship. "Oscar" for such a role could be obtained. So be honest. At least - with each other.
