Probably every company is a man-provocateur. He was always incites you to unnecessarily risky behavior and wild antics. How to cope with this, and how not to be diluted? " Personally, I have a friend. It's just a tragedy. Vanya reckless, risky, and with the language without bones. He is proud of his talent agent provocateur, and may dilute anyone on anything. If he finds himself in the company of girls, make sure the game afoot in the fool on the strip and all the girls to end up naked, or someone is dancing striptease on the table, or he is trying to persuade someone of my friends play pool for money, and he manages to divorce even those who are in a life before the cue in his hands did not hold. In a word, not a man but one continuous provocation. Sure, and you have such friends. You might even have been at risk of becoming victim to them ... To avoid this, we give you a few safety rules.

1. Humor - a perfect weapon in the fight against provocations. Try to laugh it off beautifully: "To Dance Striptease? Only after you, sir. " "To play the fool with the money? Suggest me the same thing a hundred years, when I learn to play the fool and I will have money. "

2. Say a firm "no." Importantly, do not engage in polemics. Let pyzhitsya provocateur, urging you in the right. Just always insert the "no" without explaining the reasons. No, all!

3. Most insidious question - a question of "why"? Repeat it until until completely not zadolbaesh provocateur. For example: "Let's play strip poker" - "Why?" - "Well, it is necessary to have some fun!" - "Why?" - "Well, the diversity of some sort" - "Why?", Etc.

4. Another psychoanalytic question, which may confuse the instigator - the question "why". Asking him, you razvodilu distracting from the immediate subject of divorce and concentrating on his motives. For example: "Come, meet with that guy" - "Why are you so want me to do that? You something that this will have? "

5. Translation of the arrows. If, for example, trying to persuade you all to drink, and you have a hard time trying to explain that you're behind the wheel (take pills that are incompatible with alcohol, just not in the mood). Try to move the arrow. This is especially effective when you are directly blamed: "Oh, you do not want to support the company! You're all of us do not respect ", etc. Try to turn the situation to their advantage: "Yes, I just wish that my company supported me. Come on, guys, if you respect me, you are in solidarity with me to refuse the evening of alcohol and will, as I drink the juice. " Of course, hardly anyone refuses to drink, but at least there's a chance that you will be left alone.