How to confess first in love?
But this brave act of a very close women's hearts. In our favorite melodramas and love stories we often see how the character, the courage, a declaration of love first, and then it turns out that the hero of her dreams meet her in return. These stories are so common that we seriously begin to believe in their realism. In the end, even start to think that a declaration of love - does not any risk. In the end, admitted the same in love Scarlett O'Hara and Carrie Bradshaw. And all ended well. So why do not you try? However, before the risk is still worth to weigh all the pros and cons. Calculate the degree of risk can prikinuv possible negative developments. For example:
- He may become frightened of your recognition and decide that it goes too far and the relationship was "too serious";
- He may decide that because you're asking for something. For example, in marriage or a mink coat;
- He might think that you play with his feelings;
- Or, finally, he can think of nothing and nothing frightened, but simply not reciprocated. That is, perhaps, is the most disappointing choice for women.
In any case, before as to admit the first in love , you have to understand why you want to do it. If only to hear "I love you" in response, it is not worth it. Risk to suffer a disappointment too great. After all, if he wanted you to say it and if he was sure of his feelings, then surely you would have them admitted. In general, recognized as the first love, of course, is not forbidden. Still, there is a risk to put yourself in a stupid position. On the other hand, if you're talking about a man that you love him, you like, thus pushing it to the reply recognition. And this pressure.
The problem is that a declaration of love is not always inspires. Sometimes these magical three words are perceived as a burden, the burden of responsibility that not everyone wants to throw himself on. Because you should not rush things. In this question a hundred times better to consider all perspectives and then rely on intuition. For, as saying the famous heroine of "Sex and the City" Samantha Jones: "See, how interesting happens: the guy say" hate ", and you have the best sex happens in your life, but should say" I love you ", and maybe you're more will never see. "
