How to convince my husband?
Effective way to achieve this from a man to do with guilt over his refusal, for its unwillingness to help. Such tactics are often used obsessive sellers in the transitions and the metro, which first offered to buy large and expensive goods, but received a refusal, persuade him to buy at least a small souvenir. The essence of such manipulation is quite obvious: offering to buy too expensive thing, the seller expects to advance to failure. He, in turn, generates in man a sense of guilt for what he did not meet someone's expectations, could not make a person a little happier. Therefore, the dexterous manipulators immediately offer to redeem man and buy a less expensive thing: half of the cases the buyer agrees.
Likewise, there are qualified and experienced women manipulators who seek to subdue the man. Often on such tricks are unconsciously, without even realizing that they use manipulation. Remember how you begging for your loved one to please you. Perhaps so: "My dear, you promised to buy me a coat for the winter. Not enough money? Then reduces at least in the restaurant "or so:" When will we finally begin to make repairs? No time? Then at least fix a broken stool. Of course, such requests are often made unconsciously, that can not call their manipulation, but that's when you learn how to use this technique in the right moments, then you can get and buy fur coats, and desired repairs.
Use this technique is very simple. First of all you need to put in front of a goal and achieve it gradually. How to persuade my husband to give you a mink coat? Of course, your goal should be commensurate with the family budget. Over dinner suggest to him that would not refuse to carry out these New Year holidays somewhere warm country. A few days later may show the price list of travel companies, offering "cheap" tour in Miami.
More later tell me about your impressions of the familiar, which last year vacationing with her husband at a posh resort and stayed in a crazy delight. Your cooking can put a man into a deadlock. It will come up with an opportune time to failure, try to dissuade you from such a foolhardy idea. Upsetting you with my failure, he wants to somehow rehabilitate itself in front of you - here comes the best time to request, in the opinion of men, more real and more desirable for you - buy a new coat. Be bold.
