It is considered that with positive people is easier to communicate than with people experiencing negative emotions. But what about the people who normally set a negative? Should I talk to them or is it better to avoid any contacts? How to deal with a negative person? to people tuned negative, it is much harder to approach because they are angry, and overwhelmed by negative emotions. Imagine yourself in the place of a man who in the morning to get a charge of negative energy. What would you like at this point? Likely to share with someone their negativity, to talk about that at breakfast, you dropped the sandwich butter side down, put the stain on your favorite blouse, and then stood in a traffic jam for almost an hour. Seemingly small things, but they can knock a person out of a rut - you start to feel a complete loser.

Remember one thing: you should not ignore a man who is full of negative energy. If you do not try to help him relieve stress at the outset, then this negativity will necessarily apply to others. Sure, you should not serve as a psychotherapist and run to your colleague lame, require him to tell you that he is concerned. Just ask your friend how's he doing, ask why he was so upset. If a man will go with you to contact and share their experiences unpleasant morning, then you've helped him relieve stress, just hearing his story. But in any case, do not try to get into the soul of unfamiliar people, do not try to force through with his therapist's self-taught.

If your question is it simply refers to personal problems, without going into details, then do not bother him with questions. Unwillingness to share his troubles arose not because you do not trust, but rather because the person is really experiencing a difficult phase in my life and not keen to spend someone else in their personal problems. He may experience a temporary dissatisfaction (eg, its promotion, which he had waited to postpone indefinitely), it can have serious conflicts with family (for example, a person is on the verge of a divorce or have a serious problem with children). But this does not mean that you can not help him: you can defuse the situation and remove the negative, showing an elementary human attention, for example, to treat him as a delicious floral tea or help is not in service, but in friendship and perform a small part of its work, unless, of course, this is not a burden.