In life we constantly have to face the choices and decisions. Many of them are minor, but there are times when you need to make difficult decisions. In this case, the right decision is extremely important. As strange as it may seem at first glance, but you have to decide whether to become a successful person. For you that no one will do. And without such a decision you will never succeed and reach their goal. The starting point of entry into adulthood can be considered when a certain age, we begin to decide whether to accept the opinion of the parent or not. Here it is from this moment begins our journey of life. We happen to agree, when more often when at least take more or less important decisions. And on the specific choice at the moment, depends on our future lives. Even if we decide not to themselves, come from someone "on occasion", for example, "so my sister asked, still it remains your decision and not someone else. You accepted it, you did agree with the fact that it is. It means life goes on!

All that we have today is our decisions and actions, which in the past. Their decisions and acquisitions are your achievements to date. And not even the fate or some kind of rational reasons created it. His last, we can not change. Benefits it can bring only their lessons. And here is our future we are able to change. To do this the right decision in the present. How to decide? to make informed decisions. Impulsive decisions sometimes do not give birth to us wherever we wanted. Because of these decisions people often in difficult situations. Think you always, but too many thoughts often lead us in the wrong direction. People for a long time weighing and counted, just missing their chance. And His Majesty the circumvention of such people side.

Forced and optional solutions

There is a large variation of solutions - from very specific to very vague. There are times when you need to make a clear decision to resolve the situation. For example, you have to decide whether you live in the house until the end of mortgage payments, or the decision will be made for you (foreclosure). But there are situations where you have an alternative: to change or not my wife, work, residence or vehicle. Your decisions are divided into two types - forced and unnecessary. But on the other hand, whatever that may be the solution, you usually have to choose - what decision to take and how to implement it.

All your decisions are limited to life circumstances - financial capacity, relationships with people, work and other events that you can not fully control. This affects the decisions you make. It is not always only one correct solution, there is an entire system all the same "correct" decisions. But there are also ways to take the most effective and efficient solutions. Fear arises from the fear of making mistakes and most often in people with low self-esteem. Afraid to reassure the expectations surrounding a person or defer the case for the future, or just ignores them. He can not take on this responsibility, how to take the "correct" decision.

Improved the "bad" decisions

Recall, as is usually recommended to solve problems - by following these steps.

1.Sformuliruyte your problem.

2.Naydite and come up with several options for solving it.

3.Find optimal solution.

4.Prevratite solution in a coherent plan of action.

In the event that the third stage, when searching for the optimal solution all the options you are not satisfied, Andrey Malygin recommends adding one more step to improve the "bad" decisions.

Step One

List all the negative aspects of the solution. Treat him as you can be more critical.

Step Two

List the desired positive characteristics.

Step Three.

Try to combine the positive and negative characteristics. Try to replace negative characteristics into positive.

Step Four.

Modify the solution so as to reduce the negative aspects in the light of developments from the previous step.

And now, you should re-define the best solution. Try to implement this approach within 7 days, several times in different situations. Put in it for 10-20 minutes, and analyze the results. Do not allow decisions to die just because they have a negative side. You will be able to if not completely remove all these negatives, or at least significantly weaken them, make additional positive characteristics or replaced by a weaker negative. There are other possible approaches and techniques to improve the solution. Summarizing the above, we present several stages of decision making. First of all, we should remember that you are not a passive observer, and make the choice themselves.