You accidentally found out about the change of your loved one. What to do in this situation? Throw it, throw a scandal or a request that he immediately broke up with his mistress? If you decide to save your union - we can help you with this. Betrayal from scratch does not happen, so if you are sure that your beloved started an affair, you should analyze your relationship and see where you made a mistake in what you are imperfect, and what it lacks.

If you do decide to save your relationship, you love your man, then the scandals, persuasion and pleading you are unlikely to help. Use the technique of hidden control to your man voluntarily gave up his mistress. Few women have managed to win back her man came out unscathed, that is, to maintain their alliance and not to drop the self-esteem. How to do it? Here are a few tips and effective techniques to get rid of his mistress.

1.If a man has not yet been revealed to you my secret, as you know about it by chance found him with his mistress, then know that he values your relationship, he does not want you to lose, and the connection on the side for him is not so serious. In this case, use of self-importance, provoke a situation in which a man realizes that you can lose. To do this you simply need to expose your beloved, bring it to clean water, make it clear that you all know. The exposure should not be accompanied by scandal or threatened, try to be balanced and the most quiet.

2.Zastavte man jealous. Create intrigue in your relationship - hint that you also have an affair. This can be done very simply: ask her friend to call you late at night, and when the man asked who it was, hesitate and think up some ridiculous excuse that it was a colleague at work. For men, as a rule, your betrayal - it's fantastic. They admit their own treason, but no idea that their woman can change them. If it has a suspicion that you are unfaithful, he will throw all the forces out to find out the truth. You can keep the intrigue, making new hints, without providing direct evidence. Your man will give you more attention, and he simply will not have time for a mistress, but the wake of interest to you, if he realizes that once again you must seek, moreover - "beat" you to your imaginary lover.

3.Nu and, finally, an integral part of women's manipulation - a seductive look. You will have to commit more than one trip to a beauty salon. Arouse the desire to spend his entire paycheck on myself. Compliments the surrounding men in your address, their passionate views to make your man look at you with such eyes, what he was looking a long time ago, when caring for you. Try to revive his feelings, and he forgets that for which you wish to exchange.