How to proceed with the division of property
Maybe you've bated breath, with ill-concealed envy reading about the divorce of Hollywood stars. Wow, you think, competent marriage contract, and - voila - after leaving you a millionaire! Of course, our reality is slightly different from the Hollywood tabloid melodramas. No marriage contracts and prompt lawyers for most of us do not. But there is always the property, even if not particularly expensive, which accounts for the junction to divide the former boyfriend.
So, if you initiated the breakup, should you give him what that "compensation", and generally how to behave during the division of property ? The first rule of beautiful parting: do not be greedy bitch. Do not cling to what you do not really need. Suppose you go to her boyfriend and returned to the parent house. Not worth picking up a TV that you bought at the general funds, if in the house, where you move, and so in each room on the TV. Yes, you have invested your money, energy and resources into equipping your nest. Now what? Tear wallpaper, which you so lovingly kleila? Remember: the generosity of colors girl! As, however, and tact.
For example, if the boyfriend lived with you, do not expose him to the door. Give him time and opportunity to safely collect and transport the stuff. Remember generous Miranda from "Sex and the City", which allowed her ex to remain in her until then, until he found a new apartment. She even helped him with the search for new housing, as befits a truly good friend and just loved one. Is not that the standard of civilized relations?
Another important point - the gifts! It is not necessary to give him what he gave, or request to return what you bestowed. It's ugly and just plain stupid. If you do not want you at least that is a reminder of your relationship, just take away his gifts and photography in the pantry for some time. But it is not demonstrably associated with them, but after he gets his things and leave.
Try to show sensitivity. If the boyfriend insists that you left some some thing in yourself, go to meet him and do not play in the "who-argue anybody." In short, dividing property, listen to your intuition. She always tells you what to do to get through this difficult situation the most beautiful and dignified. And remember: when you're the initiator of the break, the best once again to be generous than once more greedy! All that you give with joy, all that you give a person close to you from the heart, according to the law boomerang returns to you a hundredfold.
