Boorishness - the most difficult test for a polite person. If you are educated in the best traditions of tact and civility, daring the other person could easily put you in a deadlock. How to protect their dignity and their interests, if you directly rude? Options and strategies of behavior can be many. But not all are equally successful. The problem is that rudeness, abusive language and rude usually knock out of a rut, especially people with good education and a high cultural level, and they involuntarily lost before the foreign impudence. How to put in place lout?

Just roughly? In the style of "the fool". But frankly, the response rudeness does not give you special advantages. The maximum that would happen, so this is the usual squabbling. And as soon as you think you are an intelligent man, you can hardly win the hassle innate boor. Certainly in his vocabulary there phrases that can bring you down. In any event, to compete in the extensive knowledge of obscene language is not the best idea. So do not let yourself be provoked into a retaliatory rudeness. It is not in your best interest.

On the other hand, politely respond to boorish "what are you doing hatched, kid?" Or "see where Presov, cow!" - Also not an easy task! And whether you want to make overtures to those who just insulted you? So do not fall apart in the apology, trying to talk like a diplomat at a reception in the spirit of high society: "A thousand pardons, nor in any way want to offend your honor and dignity of the overly long look with his hand." No need to babble as abjectly: "I'm sorry, I accidentally pushed you, I'm so clumsy." This way you only allow boor feel vindicated and excellence.

Where is the exit? The best way to deal with the boor - a brilliant sense of humor. Cut off it. Replace any kolkostyu or witty phrase. For example, my friend Olya once got into an accident. No fault of his, her cropped drunken master, and then got out and began yelling: "You fool, you slept with someone to get right?" At that Olga cute smile and blinked like a fool, fumbled for the notebook book: "Do not be jealous. Now I'll give you his phone number. Of course, he prefers guys prettier and postroynee, but maybe you are lucky you ocharuete him and he too will make you right. " If you want to ruin boor and make him feel uncomfortable, find a flaw in his appearance and ustavtes at him. For example, if he has a pimple - a look at this a pimple, not looking up. If the double chin - is not driving with his eyes. Very soon, Ham feel at ease and Retiro.