How to resist manipulation, boss?
You think that your boss frequently uses manipulation, and you can not resist them? A good boss - always a good manipulator. Its main task - to control, sometimes it is necessary to use hidden controls. How to calculate the head-arm? Your boss will abide by democratic style of management. He never cries and asks for nothing, but you always categorically perform its requirements. After all, he - your boss. Do you think it charming or even attractive.
He is not stingy with compliments and always observes the changes in the exterior of staff. If you personally asking for something very superior, then you agree, for example, to work overtime without extra charge, going on a business trip instead of a sick employee. You never asked for a salary increase. Your attitude to the head - respectful, deferential. If all of the above applies to your situation, then most likely you are being manipulated.
How to resist manipulation, boss? " is no easy task. To start, you need to learn how to claim. Start small: Ask the output at its own expense, or a small sum up front. I am sure that you will not give up. More - more: higher salaries, career growth, social benefits, etc. Of course, you come to this at once. Your embarrassment before the boss is dictated by his ability to manipulate people, cause them to trust in yourself. You flattered that he notices your new haircut, new clothes and praise you for your successes.
That's why you just embarrassed to ask for material reward of labor. Do you have a sense of awkwardness: you do not want to ask more about something your already perfect head, embarrassed his reproach that he was not sufficiently appreciate your work. But that's life: you must convince your boss that you want for your work not only receive compliments and praise, but a worthy reward.
Your position in the company will be stronger if you bragging rights and show its ability to confront the manager. Only it should be done without the aggression and negativity. Can communicate with the director in a male element to the game of flirting: Respond to his compliments, often smiling, joking. Remember that communication between men and women - it is always something more, even if among them there is nothing.
