How to talk to loved ones about this?
You're easy and fun to talk to him about everything! Everything ... except this one. Talk about it is not accepted! "And in general - do you think - was he a good lover, he would have guessed what I want!". Wait a minute! Question! You meet with a psychic? No? Then how could he have guessed about your innermost dreams and desires. Some people believe that a good lover - is someone who knows what women want. And here and there! In fact, a good lover - this is the one who is not interested in other women, but he knows what he wants his beloved. Well, on this basis, you can totally help him become a great lover! All in your hands. How to talk to loved ones about it? If you are embarrassed to discuss sex with him, you can resort to a more romantic erotic methods. Write him a letter, which will be described in detail, what you dream. Suggest to him and leave his own hitparady those places where you would like to make love. For greater clarity, we can watch together adult movies.
This will help you understand what it involves sex, but also to show that love thee. You can watch porn or erotica in the spirit of "Nine and a half weeks." The main thing is that in the film were those sex games that you want to try. During a scene that you particularly like, it can move up closer to him and gently whisper in your ear something like: "And we can do the same?".
Another good way liberated - Get phone sex or cyber sex. The atmosphere of mystery and a sense of anonymity will allow you to be very honest with each other. Do not be stingy with praise! Celebrate every sexual achievement. Do not be shy to say (or write in sms): "I am so pleased with you last Saturday ... You were so gentle / passion / tough / tender. Me this is particularly exciting. " Such your feedback will help him to better understand your preferences. During sex you are as you can "give the signals, so he knew which direction to go. If you like a certain kindness, do not be shy to show it or say about it.


And finally, the most important thing! Not depict an orgasm! Never! If you want truly deep and sincere relationship in which sex - not formally, but a source of pleasure, does not imitate heavenly bliss! It is clear that you do not want to upset and offend his favorite. The more difficult to say that he was doing something wrong. But if you lie once, it always will remember: I did it then, and she liked it! And consequently, it will do it always, and you'll get in a vicious circle of deceit and sexual dissatisfaction. If he does not ask, do not start the first performances in the style of "Oh, it was divine!". If he asks to determine whether you reach orgasm, the honest answer is no. After that, calmly explained why: 1) I'm tired today, have a headache, so could not relax or 2) everything was fine, just be honest, I need more time / more than a long prelude / more tender affection, etc. In the second case, you have every chance of orgasm according to the present. Admit it, it's better than an eternal one-man show.