Parasitism - a phenomenon that has spread not only in the animal world, but people in the world. In life we often meet people who live on the other, they fit into the credibility of the people, and then skillfully exploited - it is called h elovechesky parasitism . In life, these people are good and bad times: it all depends on whether they have any at this time the victim, by which they live. Their life is beautiful, if they found a loophole to foreign money, talent, fame. Conversely, if there is no person capable of sharing with them their wealth, they are going through a difficult period.

How to calculate such a man? People of this type tend to have unpresentable appearance: they are not handsome, but not bad-looking. " Dress they are also quite discreet. They are no different to any outstanding qualities: not distinguished genius, does not possess brilliant talents. But usually, in life achieve quite a lot for a man with such extraordinary data. The university may be unexpected red diploma holders through friendship with the smartest student in the stream at work - very quickly rose through the ranks thanks to a good relationship with your boss. These people have always been friends with those who benefit be friends, seek the support of influential people. If you notice that your friend or colleague is one of those people, if you feel that he is using you for their own ends, then you should terminate your relationship or to try to reduce the exploitation of your talents to a minimum.

For example, a friend or colleague is constantly asking you for help: For example, to write for him a term paper or prepare a report by the end of the week. He has always found any personal problems or simply ill. Usually, you meekly comply with its requests, as you were just a pity it until he noticed that his work and projects get higher grades and praise, and you stay in the shade. The main rule in dealing with such people - learn to refuse, find the strength to say "no." The first time it will be difficult, as people, "parasites" are able to persuade. Still, when such rates are at stake.

 They will appeal to your friendship, to say that if you refuse to help, hence, have not had a true friendship can help them to beg for the last time. They will certainly find a lot of tricks, in fact, losing all your help, they lose the opportunity of convenient and peaceful existence. Do not succumb to provocation, be firm and inflexible, appreciate their work and to respect themselves. To stop all kinds of relationships with such people is not necessarily, you'll soon notice that your "best" friend or colleague, he stops to chat with you when you realize that you have nothing more to take you out from under his control.