I have a virtual opponent
Probably, many reading the article title, smiled to myself and decided that it was a joke and the article is sustained in a humorous tone. Alas, no .. what many may seem humorous to others stumbling block in relations. Imagine your faithful, coming from work do not even reaping sit at the computer and from that moment on, you and all that surrounds it, ceases to exist for him.
Your questions, that's wrong, he angrily replied that he was busy and asked him not to bother. On weekends, he can sit all day at the computer, talking in ICQ, forums, chat rooms. My friend once caught her Blessed "Classmates", he had a nice conversation with his former love, and they are pink snot reminisced about their first kiss.
To many this may seem nonsense: What is this, remember, and remember! He did not meet with her in real life! So it is, but agree that the mere fact that your man said about the intimate with his former passion, even if it's been a long time, and the conversation going on the internet - is unpleasant. And doubly unpleasant to realize that when you asked us not to worry and assured me that communicate on the Internet only for work - you lied, and about any work out of the question.
Very often, men chat in the forums on various subjects, and this may be not only technical or informational forums, an unpleasant surprise for you may be the fact that your loved visiting various online forums. At the same time he shares with some girls in the imaginations and talks on such topics which you would never speak!
A friend of mine just recently learned about a virtual girlfriend, with whom her husband happily talking for months! At home, he was a loving husband and at work in ICQ he did an affair with another woman! And perhaps none of this relationship would not have learned if he had not "pripeklo" to talk with her at home.
For many women the problem seems "sucked from the finger - it's better to let tryndit ICQ than changes in the real world. But the point is that whether it is a betrayal of the "spiritual" or "physical" hits equally painful. It just seems that talking on different subjects with another woman more harmless than physical contact. But is this true?
If your loved one is lost in the Internet, communicating with the other, then perhaps it is only a consequence and cause - it's your relationship with him. Why suddenly this stranger was him closer and dearer than you? Why on some topic he can talk to her and can not talk about it with you? Very painful when you know that a loved one, it turns out, has long been affectionately calls another sun, congratulates her on holidays and sending her cards, symbolizing not friendship.
Of course, we must soberly assess the situation and try to understand why suddenly the internet communication has become more important for men than spending time with you. Perhaps you yourself have pushed him to this? May have been inattentive to him, did not share his interests, you do not have enough time for intimate conversation, etc.
So how do you deal with virtual girlfriends favorite? Well, first, of course, is to find the cause. Change their behavior, pay more attention to him. Secondly, perhaps you're at a stage when the relationship became a bit insipid, mundane, boring. The yield in this situation banal and simple!
Sign a virtual friend, while it may be assumed in general! But this only you know! Now you are in the evening sitting at the computer and ask you not to worry, it's you visit forums and hours looking at some strange postcard with a poem on the love theme. That you urgently need to talk to ICQ, and before bedtime to look at the site
This may seem like a childish ridiculous, but if you still care about your partner, your "strange" behavior will not go unnoticed. Because it is so familiar to him! And even someone like him do not know the reason for such behavior! It is sobering to your Blessed, and believe me, he really consider a prioritized! This will make confusion and thrills in your very measured attitude!
And do not even hesitate in its strength! No one virtual girlfriend will not replace a loved one. Never smiley will not replace direct communication and not give those emotions that we experience while watching your favorite person in the eye and holding his hand!
