I want to love and be loved

In books and movies has everything pretty simple, there are two loving hearts, and even if on their way to have any obstacles, they overcome them safely, and in the end they will happy ending. Unfortunately, everything in life is exactly the opposite. Not only that half of the loving hearts apart because of some platitudes, so still in love there is one very simple but very effective law: "Law of meanness." It is thanks to him we love those who does not love us and is not going to love! Know the happiness of the family hearth us falls to those who love us, but who does not love us!

So how do you implement it, "I want to love and be loved? In fact, we often do not appreciate the real, beautiful relationship given to us by fate. When meeting with a man who blows the dust with us, we are in a moment begins to seem that this is not what we need. Too somehow all measured, to us submit a passion, romance .. star from the sky. The outcome of this story one - we can still understand what was with us the type of person we need when he goes out, slamming the door! And it's good if you through it a while back and forgive, but as they say - a holy place is never empty and that's your ex safely builds a relationship and you are in splendid isolation waiting for the prince.

Another very popular option when love near us, but we stubbornly refuse to notice - love one another. But of course what kind of romance can speak with one another? I know him so much, and how much he knows about me! Yes, I do not perceive him as a man, no, it is possible! We are so hard to push off from genuine love someone close that, in the end, he gives up, and we're losing.

After several unsuccessful attempts to find happiness in our mind there are different alternatives: we must build a relationship of type - "endure-slyubitsya" or "one love, one can love." Do you think it is easy to be loved, not loving? Well, if indeed "endure-slyubitsya and such examples are: a woman marries, feeling sympathy and respect for your partner, but a fiery and passionate love, oh how far out there.

And oddly enough love comes with time, but this is not a rule, we can say that these women were just lucky. Most women are alone, not because they were not lucky enough to find a decent man, but because they are hard not to notice what was around the corner, or stop to appreciate what they have. If you find yourself in a situation where you like, but you're not quite sure of his feelings, do not rush to abandon such a relationship. Imagine a situation that a person will confess his love, disappears from your life forever? There is no way not to see that, but even to call or write to him.

Imagine how your life will change without him? Sometimes this is enough to understand that this man will not just roads, but you love him. Love has many faces, sometimes we can not discern where it ends the friendship, or sympathy and love begins. Sometimes we are simply afraid of new relationships. One friend of mine learned that her love for a long time friend, immediately turned him down. She even did not give a chance to develop these relations. To my question "why?" She replied simply banal: What to be poor lovers should stay good friends. Fearing that one does not leave a couple, she preferred to keep the friendship ... but after a few years was very sorry about this. A friend got married, but she still has one. Friendship, of course, remained, but now my girlfriend says that it would be better ... it was love. Unfortunately such examples are many.

Do not put off your love for later, do not bargain with the fate of begging for "a better option," not to compromise with his heart. Take a look around, maybe your prince very close!