If he is against safe sex
About safe sex now screaming at each corner. Condoms no longer are scarce and quite affordable. And yet many young people continue to practice unprotected sex. Why and what to do? Of course, the man of your dreams probably always carries a condom, and on occasion wears them himself, without any reminders on your part. But this happens infrequently. It's amazing how many men today say their girlfriends phrases like:
- Do not you bought condoms?
- Bah! Having sex in a condom - is like sniffing a rose in a gas mask.
- Come on, I'd have to take out, not flies.
- But why, I'm healthy!
- And you have today that are not safe today?
About birth control is not easy to say. Many girls are afraid to seem boring or panikershami. Or just during the mad passions of embarrassing to spoil a romantic moment of his prosaic: "Darling, what about condoms?". If he is against safe sex , such issues are best discussed before you start to deal with them. And if you're seriously talking about this, just take care of the security measures itself.
Buy condoms, your boyfriend will be thankful to you. Especially, if you use this some sort of unusual, stimulating lubricant. Try to make use of the condom part of sex play. For example, we learn to put their mouth that will enhance arousal. And if your boyfriend does against condoms? There are already at your discretion.
If you're confident in it, then go on oral contraceptives or vaginal suppositories, which can be found in any drugstore. When in doubt do not hesitate to ask for favorite pass the tests. You can go to the doctor together. And do not be afraid to offend or upset him such a request! Finding himself in what some unknown STD upset you even more.
But in general, boyfriend, stubbornly refuses to practice safe sex, you should alert. If he was so careless in such serious matters to you, perhaps, was just as careless and with many others. And it is dangerous especially for you. From this guy's not something that a man of your dreams from him, and a worthy partner in bed will not work! Who needs a childish egotist? So be careful. Unplanned pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease yet no one made happier.
