Ill-mannered child
Self-indulgence - a type of behavior, which is quite common among young children, particularly among four-year. Although, honestly, a child of any age from time to time behaves in a similar manner. If children are fooled too often or at inappropriate times, it can cause serious problems. Give children plenty of opportunities to indulge and even encourage them to do so in a specially reserved time. If they fool around at this time, tell them what they are doing well because no one interfere with that adult fun to see them. On occasion indulge yourself in helping children understand that this is not bad behavior, if anyone does not and spoil things.
It may be that a child who is too much fooling around, or building of a buffoon, is actually trying to get away from some serious problems of their lives. He hides under the "mask", trying to avoid the crushing stress. The same kind of behavior may develop due to the fact that he sees the attention and admiration of other children and some adults. Discuss with other family members and caregivers that a child may hide behind a mask of a clown that tries to stifle this behavior.
If you see that your child is quiet and serious, use this opportunity to talk with him about his worries, concerns. Encourage your child to draw a picture that "does not see nobody, except the two of you." If a child begins to indulge in at the wrong time and you need to interrupt his antics, solid contact him with the words: "It's very important that you stayed serious. After 10 minutes, we finish the job, and you can indulge in as you wish. "
If a child interrupts an adult?
Phenomenon is not rare and sometimes very annoying and often leads to conflicts between parents and children. Especially when the really want to discuss some burning issues with other adults. Even if we consider the problem very, very important to you, politely Away from your conversation: "Excuse me", and say: "I listen to you, Sasha." If you know exactly what a child has no urgency message, change the sentence: "Sasha, I will listen to you as soon as the conversation with the AI" or "Sasha, you're sure that your message can not wait?"
Note: In any case, the principal is a child, even if before you talk with your boss and your message to him has a respectful form, the recognition of their right to your attention. Another aspect of what your child is behaving like ill-bred child - the child is likely no coincidence constantly interrupting you. Perhaps it is not enough for your attention and involuntary witness to his appeals to you - a guarantee of attention, even negative.
Many problems is breaking in during the general conversation, for example in the classroom. Perhaps the reason for the wholehearted commitment of all the topic of conversation and the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. " In this case, better to say: "I understand that you are very interesting and I want to tell everyone. To hear, let us agree, "says one who has in the hands of the cube (pen).
Subject matter in hand - an extra incentive to triple - a sign of a legitimate priority, the assistant of free speech (we ourselves often we turn something in hand) and realize the right to choose the next speaker. Interruptions can be a sign of fatigue or disinterest at your speeches and actions. If all this is the case, we need not disciplinary action, and recognition: "I feel that you're a little tired, I think I told myself a long time. Let us change - you will ask me questions. Or will you give me a job, and I will try to fulfill it. "
