In the passion for a man must know when to stop
... Allah has for several years in a state of constant ups and downs. She kindled the love like a match. But somehow it did not reach even to the serious fraud. Men threw its most banal way: first, stopped calling, then found a lot of excuses in refusing to interview, and then just did not take the tube connecting the phone caller ID. And without any explanation. But Allais more than anything else like love ...
"Who does not love, he can not breathe," - said the poet. However, excessive search for love - a serious obstacle to its implementation. If a woman wants love, and love the state - its own sake, then, like a drug addict, a woman would inevitably fall into a psychological dependence on their feelings. Alle so wanted to love, she wanted to get married, that just scared of their partners perseverance. Psychologists believe that the strongest marriages between people, one loves the other generously allows himself to love.
But obviously all that happy in this situation, the first and the second at best, merely satisfied with the situation. So, dear addict strong feelings, men also like to be in a position of exaltation for the love, it is also nice to experience loving languor, insomnia, and romantic impulses of the soul. Showing a man passionate feelings, you are the last egoist, deprives him without emotion, and the risk of life-experience those feelings. And in the passion of a man must know when to stop . Besides, everyone knows: the more booze, the harder hangover, which means - the stronger the passion, the bitterness in the disappointment.
Inappropriately naked soul
"Here I am all in front of you! What is" Take! " - The second most common mistake on the road to marriage. Man wants to see a woman mystery. Dulcinea was a simple village woman, but is unlikely to Don Quixote would have kindled her passion, if she began telling him how hard she milked the cows, clean up after the pigs and cleaning the chicken coop. All of these vital details are not included in the "cult of the Beautiful Lady" and not conducive to romantic impulses. Of course, the man knows that women are materialistic: it eats, drinks, walks, sorry for the toilet.
But it is not necessary to keep reminding him. Not necessary to tell the details of his life, especially about past novels (this is forbidden, if you want to achieve something). Think of Cinderella. Tell poor Prince when the first date that she a poor, without family, without a tribe, without education, it is unlikely he would have kindled her love. Her trump card was a mystery. It was she who brought the prince to despair and passion. Only when the feeling reached its climax, the mystery - bang! - And disclosed. But Prince had already fallen!
Never disclose your card before between you establish close and trusting relationship. Do not rush to give the Fish enjoy a romantic dream, but at the same time to swallow a worm.
Show teeth
"I'm ready for anything, I am all sterplyu for you!" - The third fatal error virgins who want to get married. Often women are so afraid of "flush out" a man that turns a blind eye to the many unpleasant moments in his behavior. No, she sees them, moreover, they are simply unbearable, but the fear of losing the upper hand. Never be afraid to show its teeth and claws. For example, you go to the theater (cinema, the exhibition). Suddenly, your satellite bounces the stranger, and not noticing you, smacking him on the lips, calling all sorts of gentle words. You naturally tense, even kameneete, but when the stranger finally leave your mate alone, pretend that nothing happened.
On the contrary, behaves as if trying to make amends, as if you witness something not meant for your eyes. Such behavior is wrong. You should always make it clear that you dislike, that annoys you, what angers. It is not necessary to build out a good girl. The "good" girls go to heaven, and the rest where they want. Bigots are boring and uninteresting, especially those which they pretend to be. Their behavior you demonstrate that you can do as you like - swallow and say thank you. He was late for a meeting, gave withered flowers, I forgot to call, to swing at you over the phone. Your "fi" for all those little things - the normal emotional reactions. You are interesting only when the supporting self-respect. Remember that.
