Is it worth the fans to make a friend?
Friends with a man in love with you, of course, possible, but ... dangerous. Most likely, his pride and temper will not withstand regular servings of communication with the object of his passion. My friend Oleg, heroically trying to make friends with the girl, with whom he was in love, says about this in a trembling indignation: "Constantly by her side, I am more and more in love. But it felt like a eunuch. She then had other men, but here I just can not get a particular someone on the side. And lived in some semblance of privacy. " Is it from the fan to make a friend?
Wiser, of course, not to tease the male appetite and adhere to neutrality. But if you really really want to be with this man on friendly terms, stick to safety. Do not make it to his "girlfriend." And it does not discuss with him his personal life! Do not tell me about a date with a stock analyst, is not advisable, what skirt is more appropriate for a meeting with muscular fitness trainer, and even more so not to burden him with intimate details of his personal life. You may seem that this is - a good idea, because speaking about other men, as you would once again give him to understand that you got it as a potential battle frend not interested.
And yet it is a cruel and ugly trick that you both put in an awkward situation. Just imagine for a moment that you yourself have experienced, if a man to whom you are indifferent, suddenly began to paint the legs of his mistress and advice, as it were, or rather to persuade her to oral sex. Rather, from these conversations you would want to sink into the ground, and therefore: to show sensitivity and know what can be said and what not.
No criticism of his passions. If even once in love with you man somehow miraculously began to pay attention to other girls, in any case no obstacles to this and do not behave like a dog in the manger. Even if you wish your friend good, do not specify with whom to meet, and whom not. In it, he can not discern your sincere concern, but rather jealousy. Even if you think that "this is sheer Tanya bitch better have him meet with Zhenya, hold their views with him and let himself understand their feelings. True friends come this way!
