Learn to communicate with people
If you want to succeed, learn to communicate with people . It is important to treat yourself and the people. I invite you to speculate about what needed to establish a mutual affection with the person and the further development of relations of interest to you. Man needs the signs of attention from other people, whether it is a simple recognition, recognition of his merits or, if we talk about the highest manifestation of human relationships, love, towards which each of us. And what else is longing to living on our planet?
"Friendship begins with a smile"
Remember, it's nice to communicate with a person with an open and expansive smile. However, what pleases us in people attracted to us and others. Open eyes and sincere smile can make real miracles! However, many of us do not know how to smile. Unlearned. Nothing can be done, life is. And some turned a smile on the American version of the show when its own dentist called «keep smiling». That is sent down a manifestation of sympathy to the banal stretch lips at very cold eyes, in which light is not sympathy for the other party, and glimpses of figures possible amount - cash equivalent of benefits that can bring communion with him.
In another case, the smile turns into a contemptuous smirk, the third - a curve, tortured grin. So what have you, my dear, go to the mirror to learn to smile really friendly and sincere. With a smile you'll be able to disarm even the most skeptical or militant interlocutor. I often have been abroad, and you know that first catches the eye when he returns to his homeland? Correctly, the complete absence of even a hint of a smile most of our working citizens. Stewardess Air France, even in "Boeing", full of passengers, be sure to smile at you. A smile creates a small miracle. Person feels that he is special, he is not alone, not lost in this sea of, because he smiled! Why do not we smile at those who brings us the other day? Vendors, employees and even the strict boss?
Exercise "Learning to smile"
First of all you need to do to adjust. Recall that in the mirror you see is infinitely near and dear to you man. Indeed, in the mirror - you! Do you want to just show itself untouched by decay your teeth? I think not. That smile himself so earnestly as you can! After all, you deserve it. Now, remember your feelings and save them. I mean muscular sensations, with which you can subsequently affect the proper mood. Because all of our lives is interconnected, and the repetition of muscular sensations while smiling inevitably arise positive emotions.
If you were able to sincerely and with joy in my heart smile yourself, you will quite naturally be able to transfer their positive feelings for the person to whom you are so sincere smile a minute. Try it! I can advise my own exercise. I imagine, as I have just announced that's what I always dreamed of, happened It finally happened! I know this, but the whole world does not know yet. So I leave my house, on the lips I have played a smile of joy, which is ready to grow into a welcoming smile when dealing with people. It works great! First of all, feel a certain aura surrounding the mystery and miracle of joyful expectation for communication and also begin to smile. And it means that we will find a common language and succeed in all our endeavors!
Oprah Winfrey
This is a black American woman spent the first years of his life in poverty on a farm fanatically religious grandmother. Her parents were to innocent teenagers. Oprah graduated from the Faculty of oratory and theatrical drama college. She always wanted to succeed and become rich and famous. And she succeeded. Today it is the first billionaire, Negro, and her biography knows probably every American. She - the owner of media conglomerates, "Harpo groups", the famous "Oprah" watching ninety nine percent of state residents. It is believed that if you're lucky enough to become a member of her show, then you're already a star! Here are some halo "star" comes from Oprah.
