Love and hate ...
The worst part with a villain - is unwelcome feelings. You know that the gap will benefit you. Intellectually you are well aware that this is the only way out, but your emotions continue to beat over the edge, not letting you start life anew.
Love and hate ... I'm bad with him, but without it even worse ... I want to forget, but remember every day ... If this is your case, it's time to take urgent action. Are you most like to spend their youth to the suffering, wandering and painful memories? No? Then resolutely embarked on the case! You can not forget either that person or that between you. Is that going to a long time to beat myself on the forehead by something hard, hoping to earn amnesia. Or do you ask a lobotomy. But this malopodhodyaschy option. Too extreme. And why forget?
Any relationship - is a valuable experience. Experience should not rush or neglect. You can make useful conclusions from what happened. So that forgets its past - a thankless task. Why do you need several times to absorb the same lessons of fate? Hence, the only thing you can do, and this is probably the most sensible option - to change their attitude. Try to treat his former, not as a scoundrel, whom you loved and who break your heart and ruined your whole life, and a new useful features. For example:
1. As a teacher. Your ex probably taught you a lot. He taught you a valuable lesson in unrequited love. Thank him for it. Thanks to him, you learn to resolve conflict situations with loved ones, learn to forgive, learn to forget the bad and move on. I believe that this man was sent to you by fate, to gain new knowledge about himself and about love. The more you learned, the more benefit you learned from this relationship, the more likely that these relations will become for you a much more successful.
2. As a brother in misfortune. Yes, this time for both of you are out of luck. Well could not you bring happiness to each other. Well now you do? Even if he treated you badly and disrespectful, do not get angry, and sympathize with him. It is a pity that he is a misogynist. Perhaps he had a difficult childhood. Perhaps he simply not able at this stage of his life to build normal, harmonious relationships with women. It's a shame. And did you tell him sincerely sympathize and hoping that someday he will change and become happy in love. But now it fails and it's not your problem! Is no longer yours!
3. As yet another a victory. Cer your "diary Heartbreakers" where you will record all their achievements on the love front, from a compliment that made you a colleague, before Hurricane romance with DJ or secret flirting with my brother girlfriend. Let your ex is just another of your victory. The next page in the diary. Another victim of your beauty and sexuality.
