Love ekstrimala
Craving for thrills - a passion that can be expressed in a variety of tastes - gambling, sex, dangerous adventure - a kind of spiritual flaw, an inability to control his desires. A person affected by such passions, is not well suited for family life. He can never be content with what is and is rarely able to understand such things as caring for someone, a sense of duty and responsibility. To deal with such disabilities difficult and thankless job.
It happens that after one passion goes away, it is replaced by another. The biochemical nature of such a phenomenon poorly understood, but similar to the scheme, according to which alcoholics who stopped drinking, sometimes become slaves to drugs, addiction to narcotic drugs they are faster than others. Rather, it is mental handicap, which does not exclude the remarkable human qualities or talents, even genius. Some psychologists even see a direct correlation between these parameters.
Ekstrimala love , as they say, it is difficult, but honorable. Partners who bind themselves by marriage with this breed, you should ask yourself how they are prepared for this role and how they need it. One thing is certain - you will find an unusual life, full of feelings, tragedies, inspirations, happiness and sorrow. The main thing we want to say - try to find out what kind of man your husband, and to correlate their desires and capabilities, as well as the degree of her love for him with the fact that there is in reality as well as to properly assess these forces.
After all, his addiction spouse brought into the common life of the premarital period. And you saw them then, but it can be understand this only during the belated regrets about what was wrong. And now, the chances that your second half will find the ideal image of beauty, are insignificant. Because he a man loves himself with all his shortcomings. And by the way, and expects the same from you. And all attempts to change it will be perceived as a petty squabbles and evidence of your ugly character.
Inadequate response to the behavior of a partner - the first call, indicating the rising troubles in the relationship. And perhaps, after the first call on the souls, you will be able to resolve the problem. Maybe he will not succeed. That's when you direct route to the specialist, psychologist or psychotherapist. And make no bones about this campaign on the back burner, or risk becoming a family where ever boil Neapolitan passion, and any attempt to communicate ends melee.
You may have to come to terms with the peculiarities of her husband. This tool will help understanding a simple truth: no one is perfect. Each of us has some shortcomings, which are known to be the continuation of our own merits. Another thing that other people's weaknesses and especially so cute man in marriage often play the role of red rag, which occurs before the "bull" on a daily basis. In the role of the bull can be any, it is enough to have a permanent partner. But the only truly wise people are willing to smooth the roughness of living together to their mutual delight, or at least agreement.
