Of the men offended if he did not say compliments? Who would ever think to ask the women almost every day, did she love him? Who among us would be offended if you do not pay attention to our new hairstyle or clothes? Yes none. We reported this did not think ... But it would seem - well, once the signs of attention, then they should all be equally enjoyable - for both men and women. If so this is a manifestation of some kind of love, then why, in fact, we're so careless sneeze? What we are made of wood or something, made of? Yes, because all these compliments and flowers, enthusiasm for the new blouses and other trash to love have little relevance. It's just a cultural replacement of night vigil at the entrance to the cave. That's it.

Hence it can be a revolutionary conclusion: if you want to understand what you need from a woman, just count than in this situation can be replaced by hunting a mammoth or a tournament in her honor. So simple that you want to weep with joy. So much for the signs of attention - very, very primitive rituals, really. Well, they are closer to nature, and they love it. And if they want, it's better to give it to them. Otherwise take for yourself, but it would spoil us a lot of nerves. Now a few words about the more complex pieces. That is, the irrepressible desire of women to them, beautiful, respected and considered smart.

Love them enough . Admire too ... Respect - sick theme for women. They believe that man is automatically worthy of respect, because he - a man who has a job and a career. So they too want to. They themselves write about it this way: "She works hard, trying to meet the needs of family members, give them love and attention to solve their problems, monitor their health, feed and do all the washing them. To do this, she uses her ingenuity, wit, knowledge, talents and love for you. So try to appreciate her efforts and give her the respect it deserves. Do not wait until March 8th or her birthday to tell her how much you love and respect. Say it every day. This will only strengthen your relationship! "

In general, all right. But we respect them! But respect the silence, as well as love (in most cases). They are our silent stern man, our self-restraint and reticence perceive more adequately. They want us to like parrots repeating every day: "I love you," I respect you. " And the more you can do nothing. Just talk. Not to say that they will be sweating on happiness, but the baldness will not corrode. They say that a woman likes ears. Yes it does all ears! K said she had a very peculiar attitude. On the one hand, it does not cost anything in the heat of an argument to award her such epithets Believing that decent people simply must go and shoot myself. A couple of minutes for it to cool, and at once forgets that talked a little while ago. Blurted it ... That is relevant to disregard his own words.

On the other hand, try to tell her very politely and gently: "My dear, do not be offended, but you have complete fool." After forty years will die, and it you do remember. Besides, all my life you will wipe out their guilt and to convince her that so do not really think, just escaped. Do not believe it. Require a lot of small services. In this case, the words they are very kind. Not only remember the meaning of what was said but the tone and facial expressions and gestures ... Solid contradictions. How different we are! Do not recall any of his words, not them. At least some consistency.

And the good word in his address, they react very sensitively. Accept at face value, melt, become soft, pliable, urchat with pleasure and willing to move mountains. And what's interesting - to fool them pretty hard if they do not want to be deceived. You can make up a story worthy of the pen classic, about where you spend the whole evening, and why come so late to be drunk and smelling of women's perfume - she did not believe it. Even if, I repeat, a legend in your nose will not undermine the mosquito. Once they are all our lies and filtered easily lead us to clean water.

But! When it comes to its merits, any ability to think critically, the woman disappears. You can hang any noodles on the ears - believe and be happy. Tell legged squid that she had a figure - though now on the podium, she'd go and meet. Mind may not give, but deep down, believe that she really is even nothing. And it will be later in the coffin of life thank you for those words. (And even if it did not believe it - still it is nice.)

Word not a sparrow

Word for them is not information, and the expression of emotions. Therefore, when a woman hears from men: "You are very beautiful" - she picks up what's behind them, not just the direct meaning of these words. What can stand behind them? Oh, the same love, Christmas trees are green. When she complains vile words, just so expresses his resentment, anger, and so on. When we throw during the scandal: "You fool!" - This means that we really are not very high opinion of her mental abilities. If she screams: "You fool," - it can mean anything:

• it hurt,

• it lacks focus,

• it lacks affection,

• she has a bad mood.

All that she puts into the words "You're a fool." Sometimes, very rarely, "you fool" means exactly "you fool". Just like us. But these are isolated cases.

Accordingly, in the words "You're my good girl," uttered by you in moments of spiritual comfort and relaxation, she hears that:

• You love her,

• it worth to you,

• You go for it on the edge of the earth,

• The other women in the soles of her no good,

• you are it is infinitely respected -

In short, everything. She is confident that you, too, are expressing their emotions in such a way.

Moral: to convince a woman that you respect her, you can just tell her about it. Other evidence it is desirable, but optional.

Female Intelligence

What is for them to be smart? .. No, rather, not so ... that women understand men, it is smart? .. (Curve, but more or less clear. It becomes even clearer.) That woman is believed that it is considered smart, you must:

"Do not talk to ten times a day:" You do not understand "and" All women fools. "

-To do so, she said, without bickering and allegations like: "Okay, I'll try, but only that you made sure that you are not right." Agree to immediately and with joy.

-Not to challenge her arguments about all sorts of complicated and simple things. If a dispute, then consider yourself smarter - so I'm stupid. About this line of thought here ...

-Do not speak ill of dramas, novels, women's, shopping and many hours of phone conversations with friends. All this is very important and nothing silly about it. Even just look down on those chips is not recommended.

No-doubt out loud in its normality, when she tries to board up the screw with a hammer or screwdriver, screw nail - if a woman does this, minus only a man. Also, loud no doubt it is normal when she says that Johnny Depp - bunting, and Putin sexy, and tries to restart the computer off and on the monitor.

All this is not a sign of stupidity. This kind of attitude and outlook. In short, always and under all circumstances to maintain a completely serious expression on his face when she starts to say something or do. Follow this simple rule can not always. Men are less likely to demonstrate their stupidity. If a man has something do not know, he prefers not to speak. If not for something I'm sure he prefers not to do so. It's simple. Everyone's shoulder to look smart.