The representative of the male species has to work out their own bread, or pet and owner can simply change their roles, and that you do not want, does not it? So, what does it mean for your two-legged pet, this working out?

If you - a successful businesswoman, and you are satisfied with this state of affairs, no one thinks mind if your home "pet" will the economy. I want to warn of another: when you work all day, and your two-legged pet does absolutely nothing, saying their behavior so that their livelihood is, to life, and very good, you are alone enough, but what's the point to him that any do?

My advice: do not agree with this point of view. Firstly, why do you gigolo? Of course, you can have your opinion on this issue, and you can even say that these representatives of the male species more amenable to taming than, say, the miners. It is, of course, and occurs for understandable reasons: Alfonso wants to cling to cushy, so he will walk in front of his mistress on his hind legs. Such a skill is not always easy to digest other representatives of the male species, while the gigolos laid in blood.

 However, think about what you need: a simulation of devotion and loyalty from your pet or are these qualities manifested in the truest form. So, the second you will never wait on the gigolo. Say something he can do everything and anything quite truthfully poskulivat, repeating about how homesick. Incidentally, the last argument against the existence of such a representative of the male species in the family as a pet: Do not think that he is not able to growl. Even as capable, especially if some of his needs are not met. So think again before you choose a dog in the pets, and even more not becoming a gigolo your home "pet".

Here we are with you and come to the second reason that the two-legged "pet" must work: the absence of labor corrupt, demoralized and generally works with representatives of the male breed terrible things that you as the hostess completely undesirable. In the end, according to eminent, it is difficult to make a monkey out of man. So do not let your two-legged "pet" the evolutionary process has gone in the opposite direction, because you also want to see next to a representative of the human species, not a monkey. Make the man work out their own bread.

Work at home must be carried out jointly by you. So that your two-legged home "pet" is not shirked from taking part in such events, I recommend you sit down with him and with a timetable for harvesting. And it can be done in some fun and colorful form and place in a conspicuous place. Then your sweet and gentle animal can not simply say that he forgot something or did not hear. In this graph, you and your two-legged pet off completed work and put his signature to be sure. Thus, if the mutual claims, if they are, of course, arise, you can always refer to this "reporting form", where everything is clear and transparent. Of course, you have to go strictly according to schedule, if you like this behavior from home "pet", but I think you'll be reminded too.

The distribution of household responsibilities

Another burning time - the distribution of household responsibilities. My advice to you: in this issue do not forget about forbearance and give your two-legged pet right of first choice, it is still a man. In addition, it employs the following psychological moment: the fact that your two-legged "pet" is your choice, it will perform much more readily, more active and, consequently, and smarter than what he imposed. Your home beast loves to vacuum? Or window washing? Or, perhaps, to take care of indoor plants (what, it happens!). Cede him the initiative. The only thing that it is unacceptable to choose as participation in domestic work - is the role of observer and controller favorite mistress, all the rest - it is possible. And you, dear lady, it is permissible to take a little more responsibility.

Also, household pet is simply obliged to ensure his mistress all kinds of cultural entertainment and publication. Without this co-residence is losing the charm and becomes just a routine. Of course, the hostess is not only possible, but most need to be proactive in this area, but a woman's heart is so fond of surprises, and the two-legged pets may not forget it. Besides inviting his mistress, they must not only those places that they like, but also in those where it is pleasant to visit the hostess. And for this purpose should know her tastes and preferences. So, dear mistress, do not be silent, as partisan, and tell you belong to representatives of the male species on this, so you do not kick, do not despair and do not blame her tender and gentle animal that he de insensitive and spits on your desires .

Romance surround you - the direct responsibility a pet, and give flowers and compliment - is generally a holy cause. How to behave in the event that he did for some reason does not? What is it about to take to get from belonging to you the representative of the male species flowers and compliments? First, we should not reproach him for such behavior in the harsh and insulting manner. Secondly, to avoid the so-called critics, by analogy, in other words, do not put your pet in one example, issuing phrases like: "That's Ivanov (Petrov and Sidorov) again my, look what buketische fetched, but you ...". The first negative of such criticism: it does not work. Second: there is no easier and simpler ways to rekindle the home row. And, thirdly, flowers and compliments, "extracted" as described above, obviously not bring you joy and satisfaction.

So I encourage you to do otherwise. Can resemble two-legged pet on their pleasant feelings in those moments when he gave you those same colors and uttered in your address delicate compliments. Surely such a wonderful moment in your practice met, at least during the period of courtship. You can admire the beauty of flowers, passing shop windows with this delicate commodity. Not only possible, but must compliment you own the representative male of breed, keeping in mind the well-known to us the law of specular reflection. Be assured: that any of this, or all together sooner or later will work.