Dear ladies, if you do not want to be "under the thumb" of his beloved, if you do not want all their leisure time to spend on cleaning, washing, ironing and child care, while your beloved is resting in front of TV - you just have to learn a rule : Do not want to become a victim of manipulation, learn to resist it. In order to avoid exhausting housework, men often use the tactics under the title: "I do not go" or "Hands are not out of the place." Their actions are very simple. Once you ask them for help, they enthusiastically take up the matter, but they do everything so that you will still have to redo everything. This is repeated until, until you decide what is best to do everything itself, you ask your man. This is precisely the outcome of events and is seeking a man. Men are dreaming to manipulate a woman !

How to behave? In no case do not try to remove your man from household chores. You have to create him an environment in which it will be forced to alter their same job. For example, your beloved washing dishes so that it is food. By the next meals you can, as if not seeing, to put it nedomyty device. If he does note, ask him yourself bridging plate, it's his fault. Do this several times until the man would not conscientiously fulfill your requests.

Another favorite tactic of men called "Dump to blame on others." Here is an eloquent example of a typical male behavior. Pasting Wallpaper one of the rooms was delayed for several weeks. You are trying to hurry a man to hint that it is time to end the protracted repairs. Hearing your words a reproach, a man begins to count your own flaws: "It is still not washed my shirt, you can not look in the closet, and generally you have a daily coffee runs. Thus a man wants to evoke a sense of guilt in women for their failures and take responsibility for unfinished work.

In this situation, you can try to try to finish repairing itself: "I'm tired of all this, do not want to live in a pigsty." Men, as you know, not like when a woman takes up the tools. Most likely, your beloved takes you brush and a bucket of glue and the words "You still do not know how" or "Give myself - finish the job. Here is another typical case of masculine "household" manipulation called "I'm offended." Men in horror waiting for the day Saturday, when the loving wife kicked them into the street beat rugs and mats, in this day they have to take out the garbage, accumulated over a week and vacuuming the house.

In order to avoid participation in the general cleaning, men often provoke women to quarrel. For example, start to do all arhimedlenno than make you an irresistible desire to accelerate the process of using the magic pan. " But you are usually limited to the nerve with the words: "Is not there any faster?" Or "What do you like the still, let's look slippy. These words tend to become fatal: a man throws a carpet cleaner or a garbage pail with the words: "If you do not like it - I did not do."

And not talking to you half a day before the end of the gene-harvesting. What to do? If you feel that your man is no enthusiasm helps you - it is best not to provoke a quarrel, and to avoid harsh sentences. On the contrary, try to position it to yourself. "My dear, you're now on the wrong foot up? Come on I'll make you strong coffee - do you cheer up. " After these words the man is unlikely to want to quarrel with you.