Model of American family
Model number 1. Dad - a despot. Russian family, by definition, a psychologist Vladimir Druzhinin, is a crazy mixture of Christianity and paganism. Man it has incredible power and authority but the responsibility he has delegated his wife and mother. Often, his primary role - to initiate a family, a family of his everyday life are no longer interested. Relationships within the family may resemble the battle that wins psychologically or physically the strongest. Understanding this can not act, everything will be resolved by smashing crockery.
Model number 2. Dad - a child. Sometimes such fathers family is also called henpecked. This model is deformed due to the fact that in wars and armed conflicts the country is physically lost a huge number of men. In the model of our family lost a father figure, and already a new generation of young men had to take the place of the child. No wonder they say about the infantilism of our men. Children in the first two models emotionally closer to her mother.
Model number 3. Normal family. Papa chief, but cares for the whole family. Normal family model, as indicated most famous anthropologist Margaret Mead, his childhood, suggests that the primary responsibility for the family lies on his father as a more physically strong and socially decided by man. This does not mean that women are removed every responsibility, but it is proportionately less. The child is the focus of their parents. Child - the main concern of adults, the main interest of the family, who above all others and for his father and mother. Normal family model dominated by France and Italy.
Model number 4. Dad - this is my mother. Mom - a father . This family is often called the American or Protestant. It is characterized by balancing power and responsibility is in favor of the father, in favor of the mother. Child grows up as a potentially equal adult. It is this family model is being promoted actively with us, together with the values of success, career, high income, competition, market and other Protestant values.
Since the model American family is the most fashionable, say a few critical words in her address. Such a family structure, by definition, unstable: partners are different accounts, and compete in the home and at work, never claim absolute intimacy and dependency, and more concerned by the contributions - psychological, sexual, economic. Nevertheless, in these families the fathers involved in parenting in the same conditions as the mother. Struck by how grown here the number of single fathers who are trying to keep pace at home and at work, having a three-to five children. A wife can go to another or to do business.
The modern American family ages, marriages more often after 40 years, and the average family's life - 15-16 years. Children grow up and parents' fly on different airfields. The main motive of divorce: we have nothing more to build together. "American" model seems to take into account the interests of both parents, including mother, who is also now wants to grow and move forward. But she leaves the child alone: when both parents are at work, children are left alone or with nannies.
Another option - to send their parenting grandparents. Very often parents are hoping that this is temporary. On the history of child domestic stars of show business, the busiest and most sought after, we know how sad it may be the fate of their children that they are somehow unnoticed lost in the struggle for success. Son of director Brigades Alexei Sidorov in the colony. Even a child of a seemingly happy family Edita Piekha, Ilona Bronevitskaya can not forgive her mother lonely childhood.
