The hierarchy inherent in any society. It is even in primitive tribes. People differ as a benefit as we approach the authorities, the sources of wealth. Democracy - a way to find a reasonable balance between the interests of people of different groups. The peculiarity of Russia in the fact that during his life, a person may witness a change order, but still no one. Scale image of the profession has changed considerably since the country started economic reforms. Became popular profession an economist, lawyer, psychologist, manager. More recently, a list of prestigious professions included teachers, doctors, engineers. In addition, the changed value guidelines in choosing a profession: the beginning of the 1990's all the psychology of growing individualism, increasing the importance of personal success. The nature of communication the child largely determines the future position in society. Here are the main options for the child's behavior with peers.

Leader

It is obvious that the leader - is the child who initiates and maintains contact with the entire group. Your child may sustain, to get all ("factory", "commander"), or all stop ("bully", "bad boy"), that is, be positive or negative leader. The number of contacts, the popularity of your sons and daughters of peers to a large extent determine it to be a leader or not. Of course, not absolutely.

Any psychologist will tell you many examples where a modest childhood children become real "leaders of" in the future. I do not think that the role of a leader - it's the best thing we can wish for their children. Leadership - it is a huge responsibility for others. In addition, it is easier to give an extrovert and creative people generally introverts. Relationship "submission-domination," they easily accepted only in case of a group of non-traditional solutions of problems.

Creative child

The creative thrust of the child, too, is visible from childhood. Such a boy or girl friends with those who are interested in the very process of creativity. They can work together to paint, sing or play. Your child should try to be realized in the creative professions. They do not guarantee a high salary, but if the creative person does not give the opportunity to engage in interesting things for him, he will cease to enjoy life, communicating with people.

Slave child

A child who is friends with formal leaders, educators, elders, showing the ability to conformism, "opportunism". Nothing wrong here, I do not see. These children are intuitively fit into the formal structure of the group, became an assistant with the leaders or formal leaders. You may notice, with pleasure and without that your child tends to make friends with children of wealthy parents, or your daughter starts to hobnob with the most accurate, most beautiful girl of your surroundings. You discover that the friends of your children have just the qualities that you encourage within them. Your child is correctly oriented to the external signs of success. The only drawback of this kind of parental "programming" - it is dependent on fashion and external authority. It is better to teach a child to rely on his strength, tastes and desires.

Friendly mutual help and aid the professional determines the fate of many. Of course, we should not indifferent to the formal contact your child. But we should not forget and that is unique, nothing and nobody are not regulated - the love and sympathy. Ignore them - just a crime. Our children just as much doomed to success, how they truly and deeply loved by other people. The myth of the happy fate of the "middle class" in Russia reflects the psychology until "parvenu, upstart, adjusts to the isolation of the children of these" new middle "and may lead to maladjustment.

The main complex of the person receiving high-paying job, is that he is afraid of losing his place, social status. We still remember like yesterday in poverty. But this is only an illusion that, to protect our children from communicating with the "scum", we guarantee them freedom and economic prosperity. What would victory nor life prepares for us, we must remember the values, proven over centuries - love, emotional intimacy, diversity and intensity of relations. No need to limit the opportunities for their children. Social and economic development must not conflict with the simple human happiness.