Oedipus complex
You too actively takes care of your lover and, like his mom, watch his every move, is going through, so it is not cold - he ties a scarf when outdoors windy. You see in it rather large, but non-self-child who needs your care, what a strong man, capable of protecting you. Your love is comparable to the mother's feelings, as you see in your partner is not a man-lover, a child who needs affection and warmth. Such an overprotective and caring about your lover can testify that you are faced with a variation - the Oedipus complex .
Of course, we used to see such deviations in uneven-aged couples where one partner is much younger than the other. Junior member of the pair tends to find in its chosen parent, whom he had been deprived in childhood. But a different age - this is not the main indicator of this relationship. Even in pairs, in which there is little difference in age, such anomalies also occur. Indecisiveness partner, his inability to act without your pointer may be a symptom of a psychological abnormalities. Such relations is inherent in the excessive tenderness and loving. On your side can be observed a constant concern about your chosen one, similar to the maternal care.
Analyze your relationship if you want to find out whether your feelings are true love. If you notice signs of maternal love in your relationship, then you have to give up permanent custody of her lover. Try changing your attitude towards him, trust him more powers conferred upon him the responsibility, requires the adoption of important decisions. So you can look at it as a real man worthy of your love. If you'll still have him soft and fragile feeling, if you see it not only object to exit your care and affection, then your relationship is based not only on the maternal instinct. Maybe it's true love.
Often a woman wants to see next to a non-self and infantile men, as she is eager to have a baby. You have to remember that choosing a life partner is not needed for the implementation of the maternal instinct. Otherwise, your feelings may be in jeopardy when you really will be the firstborn, which you so dreaming. Your love that you now spend on your vote, goes to the baby, the man will remain only a small part, there is a danger that you'll forget all about the existence of your beloved.
