Often praise the man
Men, despite the fact that they are usually called stronger sex, are actually very vulnerable and dependent on someone else's assessment. They need to have their efforts were appreciated. Lovely woman, remember that men love when they do compliments. Compliment - it is a very powerful weapon in the hands of a skilled manipulator. Compliments men to do all the time, even if they are not exactly unbiased, slightly embellished, and you feel that you overpraise man. But then, they are compliments to slightly overstate the merits, slightly glossed man's achievements.
Technology for creating compliment a man is quite complicated: a man should be confident in its objectivity. Make it much easier to compliment a woman: it is enough to admire her new clothes, fresh and flourishing appearance - and she immediately melted, get positive emotions throughout the day. With men harder, they all see the catch: if they do not praise, then, underestimate, and if bombarded with compliments, then try to flatter, to cajole. As a rule, men are always suspicious of the woman's compliments, however, determined to praise a man, you must carefully weigh everything and calculate.
Your compliment has to be justified. For example, do not convince the man in his genius, if in fact he was not a genius. Such a compliment to be perceived as a desire to flatter and nothing more. Need to compliment your interlocutor seemed as objective as possible, made him believe that you really appreciate his efforts, hard work and extraordinary talent. To your compliment produced the desired effect, we offer the following technologies. First, always try to justify your assessment. Do not just praise for a job well done, and try to motivate your admiration. For example, to deliver a presentation at the conference can be a wonderful occasion for praise.
Your task - not simply to praise a speaker, but to make him believe in the sincerity of your admiration. To do this, can compare its performance with some other, less successful speaker: "You were at the height, not that Petrov with their boring ideas." Try to be sure to note the strengths of the speaker: "You know, the feeling that you possess an excellent question. This was evident by how confident you protested. " But be careful not to exaggerate greatly, not overpraise or flatter: "It was a stroke of genius" or "I first listened to with such admiration for the scientific report." You there and then they will bite, and manipulation will fail - you fail to subdue a man to his influence.
Secondly, remember that the Praise - a great incentive for further action. Made for you a small favor and get over it much appreciated, man will be ready to perform your other tasks. Most praise man! For example, the reason for the praise may be even scored a nail. Your dearest picked up a hammer and hang a picture or wall clock? At a cost of a minimum of effort, he gets you to a worthy compliment: "You know, you hang it in a place where I wanted" or "Now, thanks to you in the house became much more comfortable." Such a compliment would motivate him to further feats: you can immediately ask him to fix the faucet in the bathroom, which had long runs.
