One loves the other allows himself to love
If you have visited doubt their own feelings - this is normal. Themselves must be checked no less carefully than their partner. For example, you are in a moment of your relationship suspect that your sense of life to the satellite can not be called love. Although you may feel that your partner - just a godsend. A young man loves you and worships, but you're pretty cool accept his advances, you are prudent and balanced in your feelings for him. Relations are of type - one loves the other allows herself to love.
Sometimes a pair of role is as follows: one loves and the other allows herself to love. And both satisfied with such a relationship. This "symbiosis" of course, has nothing to do with this mutual love. In this situation, you may not even notice that substituting a real feeling for selfish desire to be loved, without giving anything in return. This desire may occur if you have been unsuccessful in the past, or unrequited love, if you have suffered from a man who was loved infinitely.
As a result, generally lost faith that someday fall in love again. You've spent a lot of energy on feeling, which eventually caused you only pain, so now you naturally desire for comfort and reliability in the relationship. Quite possibly, you met a man who was able to regain your strength. He can give you all myself without the rest, as truly loves you. At some time you may even feel that you are happy with him because he cares about you, gives you his heat, but it is only the appearance of happiness, because you do not like the real thing.
How do you determine whether your desire to be near his partner in this sense, or is it a one-sided love? Analyze your feelings to your chosen one: so whether you are happy to see your lover as he is you, so if you're really misses him, as he did on you, with the same pleasure you are his moods as he is yours. Have you noticed that you're always happy to accept the sacrifices your vote, but do not want to sacrifice themselves for him, he adores you and is oblivious to the flaws, while you retain sanity, do not go to extremes, like all lovers, is important to you getting his energy, but would not give his. If this is true, then most likely you're just manipulating his chosen one, while remaining indifferent to it.
I hasten to reassure you that your relationship will remain the same as now, forever. If your lover gives all his energy to you and in return gets nothing, then his sense of time will weaken and may disappear completely. One-sided love has no place in life, it is not viable. Therefore, the widespread belief that couples in which only one love, while others allow themselves to love, very strong - it's just confusing. Such pairs long can not be together. Your relationship is not based on mutual affection, but only for your selfish desire to be loved, but giving nothing in return. Remember that lovers should give as much or receive. To save your feelings you should share the psychological energy in the form of caring, gentle and careful attitude to each other.
