PR Family!
So, your relationship went far enough to understand: you have a future together. Business for small: to convince the relatives. Communication with parents is extremely important for a relationship! Of course, you're not obliged to bring them all their boyfriends, but if we are talking about a potential husband ... It is clear that you all have already decided and made my choice. And now it would be good to make this choice was approved by both his and your parents!
You will have to deploy a real campaign . So, how do you make of her boyfriend an ideal candidate for a husband in the eyes of your relatives. First spend campaigning among relatives. Explain why NHTSA selected on this man for his love and as you see your future together. They should feel the correspondence to him sympathetically. It is important to feel the thin edge.
On the one hand painted detail are its advantages that are sure to enjoy your parents ("It is well-read, single-minded, educated, loyal and reliable"). It hardly needs to shock her mother moves in style: "He has such muscles! Stunned! And he's a poet! Yet unknown, but over time, probably be rich! ". On the other hand, do not lie and do not overdo. Should not be characterized by a biker in black leather jackets with tattoos on the biceps as a "lover of classical music and poetry of the Silver Age." Sooner or later they are in fact still being seen and probably will want to listen to what he likes of Tchaikovsky and Akhmatova.
Followed by treatment of a boyfriend. Try to set it positively. Suppose he wants to get acquainted with your parents! Family PR must be thought through to the last detail! Let them not think somebody like harsh jurors who had gathered to try him and convict: worthy / not worthy of our daughter. Tell us about your family. Perhaps the boyfriend will converge with the pope on the basis of love for fishing and enjoy my mother that when you read Nietzsche. In short, look for common ground. If all participants in the process called "Meet the Parents" will be relaxed and in good mood, everything goes like clockwork, and a guarantee of a harmonious relationship for many years.
Another important point! Not hate his parents. Do not make him choose between his and his family! Do his family and its allies. You do not want the classic situation, a la Montague - Capulet?
