Personal space spouses
How often do you have a desire to retreat, to withdraw from the surrounding crowd? You closely in his own family and wants to get somewhere in the room where you will not feel closed in a narrow cage? Such desires does not mean that you have developed claustrophobia. Just someone too actively invades your personal space, and you feel it. Personal space - it is the place to enter with a bang, if briefly. Even if the door is open, as in the case of successful marriages where the spouses have few secrets from each other.
Certain distance, as recommended by psychologists, and marriage is needed, and maybe even more important than in dealing with those who are not part of your family. When respected private space spouses - this will save you many problems. Start with the fact that a long tiring too close communication at all, for some people it is simply intolerable. What is meant by this term? Most likely, a reasonable coexistence of two people when everyone tries to leave a bit of life wife in his own jurisdiction. Turn out to each other inside out - this is not the same as the utmost frankness. It is therefore a limit that still has a limit, except that the maximum allowable. To be honest - unless you have thoughts, memories, desires and character traits that you would not want anyone to open?
Sometimes there is just such a mood, when white light is not pretty and you just want to be alone. And a smart partner in such a situation would not insist on close and become intrusive. Perhaps half of your needed time to think about something related to your relationship, decide to just relax and organize thoughts? From time to time people have to leave each other alone. Knowingly separate bedrooms spouses are considered a normal phenomenon in the world. And not just bedrooms, but also classrooms, boudoir, and so on. This is us "spoiled" the housing problem. But I dare say that the inner desire to occasionally "hide in a nook" made the kitchen in such a place for women, and shed, basement or garage - for men.
In the remaining minutes and when the sun shines bright and happy life, most people agree to share with fellow part of his personal space. Go to the movies together and discuss anything to do with everyday household chores. So lives the vast majority of people who are in a happy marriage. People should be together by mutual request. As to the question about the rest - together or apart, it may be, sometimes stands alone and relax, if, for example, her husband the best holiday - fishing and the wife can not stand tents and mosquitoes. Nothing wrong with that, if separate vacation does not involve anything that would spoil relations between spouses. And of course, a long time yet it is not necessary to disperse.
