Plots of conflict with children
No wonder they say: "Little kids - little bedki and big kids - ..." It grows a son or daughter, and suddenly the parents understand that they face no longer the kid for whom mom and dad were the unquestioned authority, which is due to deuce crying or felt that the greatest happiness in life - to have a dog. Now they see a strange creature - no longer a child, not yet an adult, himself is not aware of as it should, and already the whole world is ready to argue. Of course, all of its bumps, he will stuff himself, of all that is insured, but how do you want to save from the big troubles, from the temptations which the world is full of modern.
I have to anyone who will address, is always ready to help, but all the same troubles that befall the children, trying to solve in the first place. There were problems in my family. I have a younger sister and her son. Boy growing up on all sides surrounded by love and care, as well as awakened in him teenage rebellious spirit, and not know it. There was a polite boy, warning, and now - the house will go and say hello. Mother complains - was from him to hear obscene words, so yes, in between times, not like cursing, but as usual something. Previously, he loved to read, and now the school a program barely does, and then - under the lash. Make the lesson somehow and ran into the street, so neighbors are already talking - saw your with a company in which good does not teach.
Already, and it smelled of tobacco. And the final straw was - a little boy came home, apparently intoxicated, stomped into his room, fell onto the bed and fell asleep. The mother burst into tears and rushed me to call - as a guy to save?
Well, the problem of "Fathers and Sons" eternal peace, at all times, they stood up at all times people have searched for ways to cope with them. And a lot of strong words was found that children admonition to send in the family to keep. Here is my sister and I pray and conspiracies dictated, but the strongest found that much at once and sure.
And so it happened. Boy woke the next day, the mother of him during a breakfast tea with water, poured a charm. Ate it, but once the house was gone. Mother in the evening waiting for him with a sinking heart. Returned earlier than usual, in silence to his room was. So silent for three days. And on the fourth mother came home and gasped - her child is sitting and reading a book! Good look - and it is "Possessed Dostoevsky. Only and found something to say:
- You do it at school do not pass? Son looked up from his book and answered:
- Do not go through, but you and dad to me its so advised. So I decided to read it. While interesting.
From that day everyone in the family adjusted. Used to argue, of course, but have no quarrel seriously than ever.
