Psychological tests for children
In a conversation can be much better to learn the causes of children's fears and anxieties and to choose the most effective ways of correcting his behavior. Encourage your child to tell you a familiar tale, try to tell them in turn: one starts, the second continues, the third finished, everyone can stay in the role of the narrator is not one, but several times throughout the tale. Try to come up with a new story with familiar characters. Suppose that in a fairy tale meet Vasilisa the Wise and sister Alyonushka, and Red Flower went to look for heroes of fairy tales, "The Turnip" Gingerbread help Little Red Riding Hood, Pinocchio and a journey on a magic carpet ride ...
You can come up with a collective tale, whose characters become favorite toys. Each participant in the game - its a toy. Write a story to take turns: each comes up with one sentence, "adding" to the previous one, without compromising the overall plot. Encourage your child to solve some psychological situations. Let him choose out of the proposed solutions only one, and then discuss each of the proposals. His reasoning child should send you out loud. In addition to solving the problem of closure, such exercises help the child learn to think logically, develop his speech and communication capabilities. Thus, the psychological training for children in the form of games:
1.Ty fashioned out of blocks tall, handsome tower and take a look at her dad, who at that time watching television. Pope asks you to wait until the end athletic gear. What would you do and why?
- Wait, when the transfer would end in his room, built during this time something else;
- Pope to offer peek into your room during the infomercial;
- Become pester him with his request until he agrees;
- Consult with your suggestion to my mother, grandmother or anyone else;
- Grievance and will not talk with him anymore.
2. Your guests come complete strangers (adults with children). How would you behave?
- Wait until the parents will provide guests the whole family and introduce you to them;
- Without waiting for parents to get acquainted with the guests himself;
- To arrange with the toys in a room where adults sit and quietly so as not to interfere with their conversation, you play;
- Will be talking with an adult, tell me something interesting about yourself or some poem;
- Call me the children who came to visit in her room and invite them to their toys;
- Leave in my room as soon as you hear that the visitors arrived.
3. If the parents during the visit of the guests asked you to go to your room, you:
- To arrange because of this hysteria;
- Calmly, without resentment to retire to her;
- Calmly, once ask parents that they allowed you to stay a little longer in their society, and then go to his room;
- Going to whine and try to persuade parents that they are allowed to stay with them;
- Grievance and go cry in my room.
4. You're with their parents came to visit with children the same age as you. They're calling you out to play in his room. How would you behave?
- Will become a balk, and would never agree to move away from their parents;
- Agreed with pleasure to play with them;
- More likely to stay for adults;
- Go play with children, but from time to time you will look into the room where the adults;
- Constantly going to ask the parents to get back home.
5. You went outside and saw that among your old friends, new guys. How would you behave?
- First you approach them to get to know;
- Ask someone from the old familiar acquaint you with them;
- Will wait until they get to know you;
- Do not want to talk to them, despite their desire to play with you;
- Return home due to the fact that it is difficult to play in the company with new guys.
6. You're going with her mother in the train or bus, are you trying to talk unknown uncle or aunt unknown. How would you behave?
- Will be happy to answer all their questions, if they ask you to tell us something interesting, have agreed with pleasure;
- Not only to answer all their questions, but zadash their own;
- Will be reluctant to answer their questions;
- Thou shalt be silent and not say a word in reply;
- Confused and cry.
In the analysis of the proposed situation help your child choose the best solution, but do it gently, subtly directing the course of his argument that the child was confident in the independence of its decision. Think of your situation or analyze those to which your child had to get into reality, a variety of analyzed situations will help the child to behave more confidently, even in the most critical moments. No less effective psychological training, which portrayed the kid as a game. Through play, children open up, it is in it, he can easily assimilate the essentials.
