Interests and hobbies require any person. But what if his hobby is jeopardizing your love, or simply takes too much time? As once we met at a hen party. The conversation, as always, went to men.

- My patience is stretched to the limit - announced Alina - I'm going to part with her boyfriend!

- Why so? What did he do?

- He's not done! He works every day and night! You know, girl, he a football fan.

- So it's good! When a man is fond of sports - it's great!

- At first I thought so, but now hardly bear to his behavior. He's bonkers fan! In the evenings we did not have sex because of cable broadcast ever what a silly games, and the most he can - it aside for a couple of minutes during a break. Plus all the weekend he goes to the stadium. And when "we" lose, which happens quite often, it is then another week goes furious and breaks down on me!

The girls fell silent, and then once zagaldeli. Nobody tried to talk up the idea of Alina part with "barmy fans." All voiced their complaints:

- What's that, but my nights shooting what that monster on your computer!

- But my rides on the street racinge! Twice already the car repaired!

- Well, then my general ... an avid fisherman. All weekend down the drain, the whole apartment smelled of fish - the horror!

It turned out that our beloved hobby are often for us girls, terrible headache. How can that be?

Best to start with a frank conversation. Hobbies - that's fine, but only as long as they do not go into the category of manias and obsessions. Identify with The Edge of Reason. Silly night after night to watch broadcasts of all football matches in a row. Better on the weekends to go to the stadium with friends and kick the ball themselves. Personally, I am just so decided to issue an unhealthy concern with my male hockey. For his birthday I gave him a form and advised instead day and night to look at the other, go play by yourself. The idea worked: he was regularly attend training, from which his health has improved, the biceps are pumped and horny, but our relationship even closer. I was particularly pleased to come to one of his games and cheer for your favorite. I confess I cried so frustrated that voice! Try to become a part of his hobby. shared his passion!

But if all else fails, you can see that the beloved has crossed all boundaries and addicted to his hobby, for example, days sitting in the Internet, hit the alarm. Sometimes hobbies used as a way of escaping from reality. Try to understand, from what was trying so hard to escape your young man, and if you can not figure it out yourself, go to a shrink.

And finally anecdote: a woman comes to a shrink and says: "Doctor, I do not know what to do. My husband is behaving strangely. He is too fond of computers. It is not normal! "At the doctor replied:" I understand ... well, try to instill in him a healthy, normal Hobbies: casinos, alcohol, girls ... "