Sometimes it's better to chew than talk
Communication between a man and a woman does not always mean the word. Sometimes, gestures, looks, movement and touch are much more effective and eloquent. In one infamous ad stated: " Sometimes it's better to chew than talk . " And it's true. After all, words can not only bring to us a strange person, but to push him away. So do not hurry to move on to the verbal communication. Sometimes body language connects strangers much faster and stronger.
Of course, most girls are brought up in such a way that is not accustomed to strangers at bay too close. All because we know that this lady will never have to touch yourself to, with whom she barely had time to get acquainted. But touch touch differ.
Here is an example from my own practice. As at a party, I spotted a stunning guy, and naturally inflamed the desire to meet him. The only problem is that when you see such a pretty boy, you instantly lose the gift of speech, forget everything, including your own name, and does not know with what words to start a conversation.
The longer I looked at him, the more nervous. What can I say? "We can meet you" - corny. "Hi, what's your name?" - Is even worse. The situation was aggravated by the fact that the party was very noisy and crowded. To get acquainted, I'll have to approach it very closely and yelling in his ear.
Make it was not easy because the object of my dreams sitting on the couch, and all places nearby were occupied. Timidly approaching him, I thought how I could crank out this whole operation, when suddenly the man of my dreams looked at me with eyes and asked: "You do not have enough space? Want to sit down on my knees. "
Of such immediacy, I was taken aback for a moment. Any book of popular psychology or women's magazine, usually repeating the same message: Be mysterious and inaccessible. I had a choice: to remain a mystery, or sit alone in the lap of a very handsome guy. I chose the latter.
I really do not know why, but physical contact brought us together, strangers, more than any words. It was noisy, and we spoke little. And yet, when we parted, I had a feeling that we've known for many years. On the first date we have not had any discomfort, pauses in conversations, forced laughter and smiles. On the contrary, everything was so easy and natural that I could only wonder.
Well, if you when meeting with the new man does not want to touch him and you cringe at his touch, it is worth considering. Are you sure that you truly like this man?
