The original way to test your senses
You accidentally found out about the change of your beloved, but he behaves as if nothing terrible has happened. He explains what has changed from good intentions as well as checking the strength of their feelings towards you. Can I trust him? He argues that the change in order to find out how much he loves you, and to prove to himself that he was only good with you and that with anyone else, he does not want to be. Is it really? Open all cards at once: for the benefit of adultery does not happen. On the wrong people decide for various reasons, the most basic of them - lack a strong sense of a permanent partner.
Often a man is afraid to admit that his feeling has faded, it is not love, but something else - friendship, affection, habit. This may be a mystery to himself, he has not had time to realize this, but the subconscious mind works faster and produces a desire to change the partner. Changed, it is subconsciously looking for a new pair, but he also tries to find its justification for misconduct. If your partner insists that his betrayal - it's an original way to test their feelings , the more likely it is in my heart hopes that you will not survive the damage you are insulting themselves will break your relationship.


Desire to change, of course, can be generated by other causes. For example, lack of sexual experience with another partner, the desire to diversify their sex life (if you refuse to accept innovation and prefer the traditional way). Paradoxically, the need for change may appear on your excessive zeal. If you're constantly accusing him of infidelity unfairly, he may want to change you, that criticisms against him were justified.
In any case, treachery can not be a good thing, a test of strength, as claimed by your partner. If he still insists on the continuation of your relationship and do not really want to part with you, it's likely your beloved has a tendency to change and will continue to "verify" their feelings to you this way. Infidelity your vote only shows one thing: his feeling for you has nothing to do with real love.