Consider the situation where a couple is not a child is born. What can be the reason? Naturally, we only consider cases where both spouses are healthy and the doctors can not explain why they have no children. The most common reason - it's a situation where spouses are eager to have a baby and can not imagine a future life without him. As you know, both of them (or at least have one of them) there is an ideal model of the family, which must be a child. They live a childless, and therefore are constantly dissatisfied with life. They do not accept such a life! What is this life without children? This is not life! Now, if a child, then everything is in order. The presence of this idealization of family life is precisely the main cause of infertility . Children will not be until they change their system of values. Or until they go out, and a new marriage they will not have this idealization.

Another possible reason - a situation where parents idealize her unborn child, giving it many advantages. Or are they a couple have this set idealizations that no one will break down, but a child (idealization of family relationships, lifestyle, education and so forth). In this case, for "education" of parents the child should have a complete set of qualities that destroy their value system. But the number of these qualities in the parents may be so great that he came into our world and fulfilling their "educational" task, the child will inevitably exacerbate the position, ie guaranteed to increase the level of filling his "drive experience. To avoid this, it is not allowed in our world. If parents are still "is forced" situation and, for example, take the child from an orphanage, then he has been to provide them with full range of "educational" procedures.

Therefore, if the child wishes, the parents must calculate their idealization, to reconsider their belief system, to forgive and accept our world and thereby reduce the future "educate" the burden on your child. Then he will come. This, of course, only the most common of the possible causes of childlessness. Life is complicated, and it can realize a variety of options. This concludes our consideration of the major factors blocking the way to a happy family life. But at the same time sum up the next